windywave wrote:
Does this annoy you?
It's never can I come over but always in the driveway or we'll be there in 5 minutes
Drives me crazy and it's rarely the people you would actually be OK with popping in.
Our situation is that our kiddo is 8 years old and most of our very good friends (who we would be fairly OK popping in) have kids within the same range and are equally, if not more, occupied as us so we're all too busy and most weekends are booked up with something. Anyone who would potentially pop in on us would have learned long ago that we are usually not there and if we are than we value our family/chill time at home very highly. It really helps that the bulk of our friends have the same outlook/situation as us.
I bet you find the same experience as your kiddo gets older. Friends will essentially age up (life stage-wise) naturally with you and those who don't will find better locations to pop into.
...but if, like you, we had a new baby I would be a complete asshole about random pop ins. I'm willing to bet the ones who do that have not gone through the experience of being a new parent.