I am a swimmer turned triathlete. I have tried to do both hip and toes, and I find it difficult to stay on the hip. I heard it was easier, but the constant space invasion between me and the drafted swimmer ahead annoys me. On the toes it is easier but I get anxious about the direction the guy in front of me is going. I usually swim on the front pack of the wave I'm in, and it never is crowded at my speed (1:20 to 1:30 pace, depending on race distance and conditions).
As for the toe touching, I'm ok with a couple of times, but if someone starts doing it all the time, I tend to stop and do a bit of breastroke to let them pass, see where I'm going and maybe they'll get the hint via a powerful kick. It is not like I don't like to get drafted; at my usual pace I will always get people behind, but they have to be nice about it, or I'll get mad.
As for the toe touching, I'm ok with a couple of times, but if someone starts doing it all the time, I tend to stop and do a bit of breastroke to let them pass, see where I'm going and maybe they'll get the hint via a powerful kick. It is not like I don't like to get drafted; at my usual pace I will always get people behind, but they have to be nice about it, or I'll get mad.