Perseus wrote:
I don't know if removing a condom constitutes rape, but it's a horrible thing to do. Regardless, when she realized the condom was removed she repeatedly told him to stop and he did not. At that point the sex was no longer consensual.
This is where I am on this one. He didn't stop when asked, rape.
Now, the people playing the "trick" thing.........
I think people place WAY too much trust in a rubber sheath. If you don't want pregnancy or STD's, don't do it. Also, whose sexual senses are SO weak they can't feel the difference from someone wearing one or not. Come the freak on.
Condoms break. Say the girl is on top and keeps going for a few seconds. You've now either got the STD or you came and she's pregnant.
Also, it really seems like the abundance of risk is placed on the dude. How many times we hear about a girl who is on the pill stopping taking it around the times they do it with a dude.
True story.........
I was married once late in college. That ex wanted kids then and I didn't. I told her it was moronic to have kids in college with no money and just part time work. One time, it had to be on purpose, she's on top and the thing slides off and she keeps going. Pretty sure she used her hand. Wound up being probably the primary nail in the coffin for divorce as we wound up getting the morning after pill for that incident and as soon as that went down the relationship was pretty much over.
I didn't have her charged with "horn-dogging" or whatever that term is. I chose to do it and assumed the risk.
By some people's assertions in here, I could had that ex charged in that instance. I just don't get that.