BIKE3 wrote:
Blood is not thicker than water. Family is not everything.
In my family, I think that the attitude has been that family will always stick together regardless of how shit you’re treated. It was really my friends who gave me a sense of normality and stability .. And I was too pig headed to let the shit stick but I know others who aren’t in the same boat and are a lot worse off than me ..
My family (inc in laws) don’t understand the importance I’ve placed on my friendships - because really these are the people I’ve chosen to be in my life and vice versa for good reason, from my lived past experiences. I know someone else made a comment about this and it’s how I’ve lived my life and my family has always crucified me for it.
When I was younger I was naive to think that people will always forgive and forget. As I’m getting older I’m starting to realise that sometimes this isn’t always the best thing to do - and that people do not miraculously change overnight. It’s taken me years to accept this truth about life.