slowguy wrote:
Lots of replies here, and a lot of them seemingly advocating just dropping the girl without bothering for any additional info. Not sure I understand that.
She posted this publicly. I can't see how you could get in trouble by asking her about her public FB post. If she refuses to answer or give more details, then you have to make a decision, but it seems to me that the obvious first step is to talk to her about it and get more information. You simply don't have enough, in my opinion, to come to a decision, given the difficulty you face if you simply fire her immediately.
It's possible that her mental condition is such that she's a danger, but if everyone you've talked to has given positive feedback, and she's clearly not trying to hide her illness since she posted about it publicly, I think it's reasonable to give her the benefit of at least sitting down for a conversation before making a snap decision.
That is exactly what we did and it turns out she's dealing with a form of anxiety. She is receiving treatment here but is trying to do an outpatient treatment for her specific condition out of Vancouver. She told us that in the past, before she had a grasp of what she was dealing with she would get anxiety ttacks that would land her in hospital, and at times felt so overwhelmed she could not deal with school, work, etc all at once and would frequently call in sick, etc. Since, she has learned better coping mechanisms, and is aware enough to know when she needs to take a day ahead of time. She has stopped drinking alcohol entirely and has altered her diet. She seems pretty aware and on top of things.
We are sticking with her. If it turns out she needs excessive time off, or it's just not working for us, we will let her go. But both my wife and I don't feel like there are any safety concerns.
Long Chile was a silly place.