Just had a good friend call. She just found out her husband has been cheating on her for the past year and has a drinking & coke problem. Also has money issues. He's got a small construction business about 1.5 hrs away so he's away for the week and comes home on weekends so it's not like his wife sees him every day to notice changes. She's noticed he's changed over the past couple of months and has been drinking a bit more but when he gets home he's usually just more tired than usual. He's been blaming it on the business and the pressure of it and she's believed it was just running the business. He started it a couple of years ago. They've got 2 young kids. She just found everything out this morning from his co-worker and he isn't home yet so he doesn't know she knows.
What should be her next step? Pull all the money out of the joint bank account? Confront him? Keep silent and call a divorce attorney? She's looking to us for some advice but I haven't been in this situation before.
What should be her next step? Pull all the money out of the joint bank account? Confront him? Keep silent and call a divorce attorney? She's looking to us for some advice but I haven't been in this situation before.