Given the popularity of the "sex and depression" thread, this might be an interesting debate topic...
I've got 5 year old twins. One boy, one girl. They're familiar with basic anatomy, and even use "standard" terms (not kid-speak terms) for the relevant body parts. To my knowledge, they don't know what "sex" is, yet. We've had the "stranger" talk, and we've discussed how body parts covered up by underwear are "private" (NOT "bad" or "naughty"), and are to remain untouched by others, with medical or parental care exceptions. They're largely cool with that.
So, I'm curious to see the board's variety of opinions on when and to what exten to have THE TALK (or series of progressively more in-depth TALKS) with them.
Do I spring it on them now? Age 6? 8? 10? 15? never? Explain the lyrics to George Michael's "Sex!" ?
Lessee what you think...
And no fair copping out with "you must tell them what's in line with your own family's moral code". COP OUT. I want to know what you would (did?) tell YOUR kids. This is a discussion of opinions, not a request for parenting advice...
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I've got 5 year old twins. One boy, one girl. They're familiar with basic anatomy, and even use "standard" terms (not kid-speak terms) for the relevant body parts. To my knowledge, they don't know what "sex" is, yet. We've had the "stranger" talk, and we've discussed how body parts covered up by underwear are "private" (NOT "bad" or "naughty"), and are to remain untouched by others, with medical or parental care exceptions. They're largely cool with that.
So, I'm curious to see the board's variety of opinions on when and to what exten to have THE TALK (or series of progressively more in-depth TALKS) with them.
Do I spring it on them now? Age 6? 8? 10? 15? never? Explain the lyrics to George Michael's "Sex!" ?
Lessee what you think...
And no fair copping out with "you must tell them what's in line with your own family's moral code". COP OUT. I want to know what you would (did?) tell YOUR kids. This is a discussion of opinions, not a request for parenting advice...
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Yes, I too now have a Blog. Don't laugh.