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This weekend is pretty much just us doing nothing...at his suggestion and I quickly agreed....well, except for his mountain bike race, and next weekend we are going to Maui for 3 nights. And I do have plans for a nice romantic trip to Kauai later this year, but our weekend schedule is really pretty full until the end of the year. But I do need to focus some on him, okay a lot on him.
Beth, be careful, once you start posting here you are one step closer to doing an Ironman :-)
I would be careful of this. Many men don't like to express what they really want (I suppose I should say men and women) because they want you to figure it out. They think you should know them well enough.
I love the swimming lesson idea. One of the best gifts I have received was hang glide lessons. I was very impressed that the person had remembered the conversation where I expressed interest in the sport.
As a man I have to say that couple massages just suck. It is great being there with your partner but I have found that couple massages are more of an environment thing and not a good massage. If you think you are up to it, I would give him the massage yourself and finish it off any way you see fit.
It sounds like you have Mr Wonderful who is always thinking about you and doing the right things. To me this means that he is listening to the things that you say as well as being able to read you well. It sounds like a good time to be Miss Wonderful. Have you been listening and observing?
Some things that are a real turn on (for me):
- A day where it is truly about me...no wondering if the other person is having fun instead they are only thinking about what I would like
- Getting woken up in the middle of the night for spontaneous you know what
- A nice breakfast with fun conversation - preferably in bed and then followed by you know what
- A beautifully written card (preferably drawn by hand or created from a scanned photo that represents a special time the two of you shared) that expresses the appreciation of what you share. Don't discount this. If he is what he seems to be then he probably has been able to provide for himself anything that he wishes. If he wants a new toy he can buy it for himself. The sentiment that you put into a card will be priceless
"your horse is too high" - tigerchik