Justgeorge wrote:
I have a very weak gag reflex, without constantly pulling it away I'm coughing and gagging.
... A person who's so abjectly terrified of a piece of cloth over his mouth that he works himself into uncontrollable panic attacks... decides to barrel into a discussion about masks to lecture people about living in fear?
I generally try to empathize with people who are working through some complicated mental issues... especially when those mental issues end up having physical manifestations that they can't control... but it becomes exponentially tougher to do that when those people lob insults about the normative, reasonable, and justifiable behavior of others, rather than acknowledging their own problems. Maybe you could rethink your strategy on this one? One place to start would be by acknowledging that another person wearing a mask has the exact same number of negative ramifications for you as another person wearing a button-down shirt... and since there appears to be some evidence that it reduces airborne pathogens (there's no need to complicate this... it's a barrier in front of the portion of your body that produces airborne pathogens...) you'll get to reap the benefits from other people's cautious behaviors...
Furthermore, there are some pretty bright people on this board, and I bet a few of them would be happy to propose strategies that could help you work through the problems you're encountering, and then maybeāone day in the futureāthere'd be a chance that you could also contribute to some of those collective benefits which, in your current state, you're only able to draw down...