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Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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Have you personally encountered one of these hysterical people or more to the point is the person you're dating hysterical?
Not to mention what are you planning to do that has you worried? You're not planning on going into Louis CK territory or something are you?
Not to mention what are you planning to do that has you worried? You're not planning on going into Louis CK territory or something are you?
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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If there is one thing everyone should know by now, what is normal in Duffy's world is significantly different than normal in the real world. He basically told women to calm down, they are over-reacting. Women deserve more credit than that. Have fun on your date.
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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This makes me think that we are going back to the future. A contract before sex, I believe that used to be marriage. My daughter is going off to university. If she wants a walk home after dark they provide an escort (one male and female as a team). I'm quite happy about that. I met young man who got disciplined by his university for having a consensual relationship with a student one year younger than him because he was the residence "don". He was second year she was first. Next thing you know they will have all female and all male residences again.
They constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within
Dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good T.S. Eliot
They constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within
Dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good T.S. Eliot
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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Just think WWWD and do the opposite and you will be fine.
They constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within
Dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good T.S. Eliot
They constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within
Dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good T.S. Eliot
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [BLeP]
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LoL
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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*(I thought about bringing along legal counsel and his wife, but maybe that would be a little bit over the top?)4 way right off the get go, bold move !
"I think I've cracked the code. double letters are cheaters except for perfect squares (a, d, i, p and y). So Leddy isn't a cheater... "
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [Leddy]
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It does seem somewhat brash. Mind you; fortune favours the brave...
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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Juat tape the interaction so you have a record of the whole event.
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [TimeIsUp]
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If there is one thing everyone should know by now, what is normal in Duffy's world is significantly different...This is very likely true.
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...in the real world.My world, your world, their world. It’s all the same world.
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He basically told women to calm down, they are over-reacting.Nope.
I’m saying some women need to fucking chill. Some other women need to be held somewhat accountable for staying silent about real sexual assault (Weinstein) because of how their silence allowed other women to also be victimized.
When Mrs. Duffy was 19 her boss followed he home, waited until she went to sleep, broke into her bedroom and tried to foceably rape her. She fought him off, he ran out, she called the cops.
Turns out this guy had done this to several other women who said nothing. Their silence allowed this guy to continue his assaults until Mrs. Duffy reported him.
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Women deserve more credit than that.Women who actually deserve more credit do.
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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Be yourself. When/if you feel the time is right, make your move. If she rebuffs you try your best to assess if she’s playing “hard to get”. If you think that’s the case try again (if you think she’s really not down for the struggle then that’s it, you’re done).
If she says no a second time then back off, verbalize your attraction/desire for her in a kind and honest way.
Ask her out for another date if she’s interested.
If the subject of the recent bullshit comes up take it as the perfect opportunity to clear the air. Ask her what she thinks about it all and listen to her!
If you disagree with her on the subject but still want to fuck her keep your god damn mouth shut!
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
If she says no a second time then back off, verbalize your attraction/desire for her in a kind and honest way.
Ask her out for another date if she’s interested.
If the subject of the recent bullshit comes up take it as the perfect opportunity to clear the air. Ask her what she thinks about it all and listen to her!
If you disagree with her on the subject but still want to fuck her keep your god damn mouth shut!
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windywave]
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windywave wrote:
Juat tape the interaction so you have a record of the whole event.Video.
And post it here!
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [JerseyBigfoot]
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JerseyBigfoot wrote:
It does seem somewhat brash. Mind you; fortune favours the brave...When I was single I would pick up chicks by simply just asking them if they wanted to fuck.
Talk to them for a bit (at a coffee shop or wherever) and then when that awkward moment of silence comes I’d just say, “so, do you want to come over to my house and fuck around?”
If they said no, that was it. If they said yes, we’d go.
Simple.
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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Made me think/worry about my upcoming 'decisive' date tomorrow, where I plan to let her know my feelings about her.
There's your first mistake.
There's your first mistake.
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [windschatten]
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windschatten wrote:
Hey, you are onto something... Made me think/worry about my upcoming 'decisive' date tomorrow, where I plan to let her know my feelings about her. Just in case we might hit it off, I think I am going to bring (in addition to gum and condoms):
Is this a joke or legit? This is how dating goes for you? Meaning you plan something called a "decisive" date and use that to determine whether you "hit it off?"
Don't take this the wrong way, but that sounds more like a serial killer tactic than a fun date.
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [trail]
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I think we should place bets.
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [Duffy]
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Duffy wrote:
I think we should place bets.I'm a no. Something feels off by the description.
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [trail]
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trail wrote:
Duffy wrote:
I think we should place bets.I'm a no. Something feels off by the description.
I am betting he masturbates into a plant in front of her. It seems that us a "thing" now.
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Proud member of the MSF (Maple Syrup Mafia)
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [CaptainCanada]
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CaptainCanada wrote:
trail wrote:
Duffy wrote:
I think we should place bets.I'm a no. Something feels off by the description.
I am betting he masturbates into a plant in front of her. It seems that us a "thing" now.
You’re on!
$5.00?
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [trail]
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trail wrote:
Duffy wrote:
I think we should place bets.I'm a no. Something feels off by the description.
He’s got no game.
He’ll get shut down and he’ll walk away with slightly lower testosterone levels because of it.
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [CaptainCanada]
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Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [Duffy]
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Duffy wrote:
JerseyBigfoot wrote:
It does seem somewhat brash. Mind you; fortune favours the brave...When I was single I would pick up chicks by simply just asking them if they wanted to fuck.
Talk to them for a bit (at a coffee shop or wherever) and then when that awkward moment of silence comes I’d just say, “so, do you want to come over to my house and fuck around?”
If they said no, that was it. If they said yes, we’d go.
Simple.
...and by "coffee shop" you mean street corner.
...and by "say no" you mean they'd ask if you were a cop.
...and by "say yes" you mean they'd tell you it was $20.
On the OP, I think there's a fair chance he finds himself face-down in a pillow taking it from a strap-on.
Re: Dating in the current hysterical climate.... [DJRed]
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Nope.
It ain’t that hard if you’re reasonably good looking, have empathy, a sense of humor and good listening skills.
Oh, and balls. It takes balls to ask someone you just met if they want to have sex with you.
Be prepared to be rejected and don’t let that get you down.
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
It ain’t that hard if you’re reasonably good looking, have empathy, a sense of humor and good listening skills.
Oh, and balls. It takes balls to ask someone you just met if they want to have sex with you.
Be prepared to be rejected and don’t let that get you down.
Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.
- Chinese proverb
CaptainCanada wrote:
trail wrote:
Duffy wrote:
I think we should place bets.I'm a no. Something feels off by the description.
I am betting he masturbates into a plant in front of her. It seems that us a "thing" now.
No need for those pics!