elizabeth wrote:
Actually, i stumbled upon this quite by accident, I read Thoe911s plea for a married woman to help convince his wife to agree to him going
to Vegas. You don't believe in monog. relationships, but let me say
that there are many men and women who actually see their marriage
as an equal partnership, both deserving the same respect for their
values and feelings. Everyone has his/her own feelings and opinions
about this type thing and rightfully so.
I would not mind my husband going on a trip like that, as long as I
knew there would not be any strip clubs, stripper parties and the like,
and he would feel the same about me going.
There are a lot of women and actually many men who feel the same
way, and what I have learned over the years, is that a man will walk
out of a relationship over his partner going to these places, doing
these things quicker than a woman will. We are all going to see
others that we find attractive almost anywhere, but to most of us,
going to a source specifically for that purpose is finding sexual
pleasure outside that relationship and is a form of cheating. Not
everyone feels that way and that is fine for them, as i said, everyone
has a right to his/her own feelings and to live accordingly.
THis is a really biiiiiiiggggggg sore spot with me as I was hurt
very badly by this stuff and much much more as a result of it and
to this day, it still hurts, the damage doesn't ever go away. I
decided to learn everything I could about all of it and I did, and
have kept up with it over all these years,
No one has the right to tell you that you are wrong to feel and think
as you do, and i personally would never do that, you are right to
think and feel whatever is right for you,we just believe in keeping it
at home and after 35 years plus (many new g-strings later) this is
what works for us, I am 63 yrs and my husband is 83. and very happy.
I am guessing you are a male, but no matter
have a good life
I'm a 41yo woman. I know shocking with the view points I have.
I think age does have something to do with it...you're being 63 and your husband being 83 (please, don't take offense to this..it's not my intention). You both grew-up in a time where people respect marriage and their partner. I'm not saying people don't now, but I feel people think it's very disposable. We become an instant gratification world and if we don't like something we get rid of it.
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