I'm curious why you signed up on a Triathlon forum and your only 3/4 posts have been to this thread, nothing else. Maybe you're not this wife, but there is some connection, you're probably her friend. My point being, people don't just stumble upon ST, create and account and post to one specific topic...Typically, this happens in the MF and someone is or very close to getting outed for cheating at an event and either they have created an account or one of their friends have and gone into defense mode. So, please excuse my skepticism.
All I know about your marriage is what you've posted. But, men are men. Men look at other women (other than their respective partner) and fantasize about them, sexually....this is human nature. I personally feel we as humans are not programmed to be monogamous, whether that is fantasizing about people outside our marriage/relationship or actually having physical contact/sexual relations with them.
Have you read through any of the posts in the LR? There are some great happily married men who love their wives. However, they are after all, men aka pigs. There are posts about the hot Beverly Hills women in their Lululemon workout clothes to Michelle Jenneke to women bending over and they are checking out her ass. They are all salivating over all these women and as happy as some of them are in their marriage and love their wife, I guarantee they are going in the bathroom and locking the door - thinking about these women.
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