It would piss me off if your daughter was the only one who didn’t get take out (if the “kids”
Didn’t get take out I would think it’s understandable).

If this wasn’t the first time it happened, I would always send her over there with a 20.

LOL, I love that.

Very odd. It's an unwritten rule you take care of the kids when you have them - yours, their friends, and any other odd ones here and there. And Karma evens it all out at the end.

The only circumstance where it would not be odd is if they think your kid has special dietary needs. If kid does not, you may want to clear up that misconception in case that's it.

The itemized bill would be funny and tempting. I'd be curious to ask around if it's just your kid that's not fed or if they just don't feed kids that aren't their own?