This. 22 is so young! Whether biological child or not, 22 is just too young to have to deal with that. No matter how amicable the divorce was, I guarantee he has baggage. 22 is too young to live with that. I know that you are probably rolling your eyes right now, I would have been doing the same at your age, but trust me, 22 is so young! Have fun, whatever that means to you, date, get out there and do whatever young 20somethings do (legal and clean of course!). The baggage and kids can wait. I'd give my right arm to be 22 again. Ah, if I'd known then what I know now! Hindsight and all that.