AMT04 wrote:
corneliused wrote:
BrianB wrote:
ST classifieds? assuming yes, then you're generally going to be getting a discount vs. eBay. So it seems reasonable to pay via personal transfer. Or if you have a concern, offer as the buyer to pay (or split) the transaction fee. Which I've done, for items that are significantly expensive. In general, I'd say ST classifieds is pretty reliable. Nothing but good experiences here, on both sides.
Okay, I suppose
I can accept that I am unlikely to be swindled by a long time forum member. However when you pay for goods via gift on payment, are you not stealing from paypal? Seems rather akin to banditing a race to me.
Be careful with that assumption. I, and several other ST members, were swindled by a long time forum member whose public identity was well known. For me it was only $600 or so that was stolen, but if I remember correctly others lost more. I think this is an exception to an otherwise pretty reliable marketplace, but since then I've done all my shopping at the LBS or at the very least in person.
I think I remember the guy and item you are talking about. Something to do with a campy crank, right?
For me, personally, I will use PayPal gift if I would feel comfortable with putting a money order or cashier's check in an envelope and mailing out to the seller. If I don't trust the seller to quite that level, whether through lack of personal interaction or forum history or references or whatever, I will use PayPal and pay the extra 3% for my own buyer protection. On the other hand, when I sell an item, I either quote prices explicitly as "net to me"- shipping and any transaction fees extra - or I add in the 3% overhead and estimated shipping costs and quote a final price.
If you spend enough time in any online marketplace, you will encounter bad sellers and bad buyers. I have seen outright scammers as well as shady people who misrepresent their products or expectations, but over nine years and hundreds of transactions ranging from $5 to $3000, the vast majority have been outstanding individuals who I'd trust more than most businesses. Use of PayPal gift has had no relevance to the moral quality of any seller or buyer I have ever personally encountered.