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Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent.
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One pump or two?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/...hultz_n_2931734.html

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Nicely done Howard, imagine that... a CEO with Principles.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
Nicely done Howard, imagine that... a CEO with Principles.

Could say the same for the chicken dude, no?

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Lol I look forward to the response to your question.


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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Too bad Schultz couldn't run a basketball team.
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Yes, I suppose you could...

*Change* Imagine that, a CEO that stands up for what is right.

And no I will not agree that Chick-fil-A CEO is standing up for what is right.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
Yes, I suppose you could...

*Change* Imagine that, a CEO that stands up for what is right.

And no I will not agree that Chick-fil-A CEO is standing up for what is right.

Well, see now you changed a factual statement to one of opinion. Cheater!

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Duffy wrote:
BLeP wrote:
Yes, I suppose you could...

*Change* Imagine that, a CEO that stands up for what is right.

And no I will not agree that Chick-fil-A CEO is standing up for what is right.


Well, see now you changed a factual statement to one of opinion. Cheater!

I would argue that I did no such thing.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
Duffy wrote:
BLeP wrote:
Yes, I suppose you could...

*Change* Imagine that, a CEO that stands up for what is right.

And no I will not agree that Chick-fil-A CEO is standing up for what is right.


Well, see now you changed a factual statement to one of opinion. Cheater!


I would argue that I did no such thing.

In your opinion...

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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My opinion is always 100% right. That's a fact.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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The guy who asked the question is a "professional troll" who asks similar questions at other shareholder meetings.
Last edited by: tazunemono: Mar 25, 13 6:32
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [tazunemono] [ In reply to ]
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tazunemono wrote:
The guy who asked the question is a "professional troll" who asks similar questions at other shareholder meetings.

agreed, he is an asshat. i think more and more companies are realizing that an open stance on equality is not bad for business at all.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
Yes, I suppose you could...

*Change* Imagine that, a CEO that stands up for what is right.

And no I will not agree that Chick-fil-A CEO is standing up for what is right.

I don't think he is either, but the question was whether he was standing up for his principles--which he clearly is. The moral here is: Just standing up for one's principles isn't enough; the principles themselves need to be right.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Eppur si muove] [ In reply to ]
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>I don't think he is either, but the question was whether he was standing up for his principles--which he clearly is.

It's easy to stand up for principles when they dovetail neatly with your business plan. Given Starbucks' demographics and branding (which existed long before this issue), it's kind of a no-brainer to market to gays. Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Love the Starbuck's CEO. He is also an advocate for following state laws regarding firearms. He gets flack from anti gunners because he says that if states allow citizens to carry, they are welcome at Starbucks. Drives the gun control proponents crazy when he tells them he won't post "no carry" signs in any of his retail locations.

Basically, it sounds like he pisses off anyone that has issues with personal freedoms. That is my kind of CEO.
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [trail] [ In reply to ]
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trail wrote:
Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.

OMG. Am I gay because I too love a nice clean food service business?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Old Hickory] [ In reply to ]
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Old Hickory wrote:
trail wrote:
Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.


OMG. Am I gay because I too love a nice clean food service business?

no, hickory, youre gay because you clearly love hard wood.

who's smarter than you're? i'm!
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Old Hickory] [ In reply to ]
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Old Hickory wrote:
OMG. Am I gay because I too love a nice clean food service business?

If you meant gay to mean cheerful, sure?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [veganerd] [ In reply to ]
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no, hickory, youre gay because you clearly love hard wood.

FTW!

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [TashaSkippy] [ In reply to ]
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TashaSkippy wrote:
Love the Starbuck's CEO. He is also an advocate for following state laws regarding firearms. He gets flack from anti gunners because he says that if states allow citizens to carry, they are welcome at Starbucks. Drives the gun control proponents crazy when he tells them he won't post "no carry" signs in any of his retail locations.

Basically, it sounds like he pisses off anyone that has issues with personal freedoms. That is my kind of CEO.

Interestingly, (to me anyway) a large portion of the people who believe in the personal freedom that the 2nd amendment provides do not believe in gays should have the right to marry each other.

Perhaps it's time for a 28th amendment... (not holding my breath).

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [veganerd] [ In reply to ]
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veganerd wrote:
Old Hickory wrote:
trail wrote:
Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.


OMG. Am I gay because I too love a nice clean food service business?


no, hickory, youre gay because you clearly love hard wood.

I'm straight as an arrow, but I love hard wood too. Just the other day, I sat on some hard wood for several hours and it was quite pleasurable. Everyone should own a cherry rocker ...

"The right to party is a battle we have fought, but we'll surrender and go Amish... NOT!" -Wayne Campbell
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
TashaSkippy wrote:
Love the Starbuck's CEO. He is also an advocate for following state laws regarding firearms. He gets flack from anti gunners because he says that if states allow citizens to carry, they are welcome at Starbucks. Drives the gun control proponents crazy when he tells them he won't post "no carry" signs in any of his retail locations.

Basically, it sounds like he pisses off anyone that has issues with personal freedoms. That is my kind of CEO.


Interestingly, (to me anyway) a large portion of the people who believe in the personal freedom that the 2nd amendment provides do not believe in gays should have the right to marry each other.

I am not sure that is really accurate. I, for one, believe in 2A and believe gays should have the right to marry. Off the top of my head, most of the individuals who jump into the 2A threads in support of firearms feel the same way.

Also, you are comparing apples to oranges. The Constitution specifically delineates the right to bear arms. It says nothing about marriage. Of course, people like me argue that the 14th prohibits discrimination b/t same and opposite sex marriage. But, marriage itself is not a specific right set forth in the Constitution.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [burnman] [ In reply to ]
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burnman wrote:
veganerd wrote:
Old Hickory wrote:
trail wrote:
Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.


OMG. Am I gay because I too love a nice clean food service business?


no, hickory, youre gay because you clearly love hard wood.


I'm straight as an arrow, but I love hard wood too. Just the other day, I sat on some hard wood for several hours and it was quite pleasurable. Everyone should own a cherry rocker ...

yes but his wood of choice is coupled with nuts. SUPER GAY!

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
Perhaps it's time for a 28th amendment... (not holding my breath).

Get two-thirds of both Houses to propose it or have two-thirds of the states legislatures to request Congress to call a national convention, then have it passed by 38 states.
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Ahillock] [ In reply to ]
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I read the rules, hence the "I'm not holding my breath".

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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I hope he weighs in on the legalization of weed.

"I'll take a Vente Chronic Blend with an extra shot of Gay."

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Duffy wrote:
I hope he weighs in on the legalization of weed.

"I'll take a Vente Chronic Blend with an extra shot of Gay."

ill take two!

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [trail] [ In reply to ]
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trail wrote:
It's easy to stand up for principles when they dovetail neatly with your business plan.

No doubt, and that applies to the CEOs of both Starbucks and Chick-fil-a. Regardless, in the Starbucks case it's nice to see him stand up for a good principle, regardless of how it matches his economic interests.

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Which is probably why I was registering 59.67mi as I rolled into T2.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Eppur si muove] [ In reply to ]
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Eppur si muove wrote:
trail wrote:
It's easy to stand up for principles when they dovetail neatly with your business plan.


No doubt, and that applies to the CEOs of both Starbucks and Chick-fil-a. Regardless, in the Starbucks case it's nice to see him stand up for a good principle, regardless of how it matches his economic interests.

So - if I'm understanding you correctly - gays like terrible coffee, and anti-gays like terrible food.

Is it possible that Denny's is the key to peace between them?

"The right to party is a battle we have fought, but we'll surrender and go Amish... NOT!" -Wayne Campbell
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [JSA] [ In reply to ]
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JSA wrote:
BLeP wrote:
TashaSkippy wrote:
Love the Starbuck's CEO. He is also an advocate for following state laws regarding firearms. He gets flack from anti gunners because he says that if states allow citizens to carry, they are welcome at Starbucks. Drives the gun control proponents crazy when he tells them he won't post "no carry" signs in any of his retail locations.

Basically, it sounds like he pisses off anyone that has issues with personal freedoms. That is my kind of CEO.


Interestingly, (to me anyway) a large portion of the people who believe in the personal freedom that the 2nd amendment provides do not believe in gays should have the right to marry each other.


I am not sure that is really accurate. I, for one, believe in 2A and believe gays should have the right to marry. Off the top of my head, most of the individuals who jump into the 2A threads in support of firearms feel the same way.

Also, you are comparing apples to oranges. The Constitution specifically delineates the right to bear arms. It says nothing about marriage. Of course, people like me argue that the 14th prohibits discrimination b/t same and opposite sex marriage. But, marriage itself is not a specific right set forth in the Constitution.

You may be right, I think that I was not up to date on how support for gay marriage has grown in the US. 49% today compared to 32% in 2003. Please don't ask for links, I am a lazy, lazy man.

Question... do your courts not have the right to rule on what is meant by the Constitution? For example... Canadian courts ruled that section 15 of the Charter of RIghts and Freedoms

15. (1) Every individual is equal before and under the law and has the right to the equal protection and equal benefit of the law without discrimination and, in particular, without discrimination based on race, national or ethnic origin, colour, religion, sex, age or mental or physical disability.

while not specifically mentioning sexual orientation it includes it in the spirit of the law. This ruling has lead to other judges confirming that banning same sex marriages goes against the Charter.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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We have two gay marriage cases before the US Supreme Court right now. So, yes.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [burnman] [ In reply to ]
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burnman wrote:
Eppur si muove wrote:
trail wrote:
It's easy to stand up for principles when they dovetail neatly with your business plan.


No doubt, and that applies to the CEOs of both Starbucks and Chick-fil-a. Regardless, in the Starbucks case it's nice to see him stand up for a good principle, regardless of how it matches his economic interests.

So - if I'm understanding you correctly - gays like terrible coffee, and anti-gays like terrible food.

Is it possible that Denny's is the key to peace between them?

As long as nobody is black.
http://www.complaints.com/...t_Denny_s_207318.htm

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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People are comparing this to the stand taken by the Chick-fil-a CEO, but is there a difference? I think the Chick-Fil-a CEO's stand was done as a private person, not as the CEO of a a company. Where as the article said Starbucks came out in favor of some law.

Should companies be campaigning for laws that don't effect their operations? I'm ok with a company lobbying for various work practice reforms, health insurance issues, etc, but I really don't like to see companies spending their resources on social issues. Just because this issue is one that you may agree with, what if if it was one you did not agree with, would you still be happy about a company using resources for social issues?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [patf] [ In reply to ]
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"Should companies be campaigning for laws that don't effect their operations? "

I'm not sure how ethical it is for companies to endorse laws on social issues not related to their bottom line. Unless the CEO has sent out some sort of shareholder survey asking for a vote on the issue, it's a bit disingenuous to endorse an issue on behalf of all those shareholders. Just because they invest in your coffee company doesn't mean they agree with the CEO's personal opinions on gay marriage, for instance. That said, if the CEO pisses off enough shareholders, they'll get rid of him.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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That said, if the CEO pisses off enough shareholders, they'll get rid of him.

regardless if they agree with him or not, i doubt they will be quick to kick the guy out when they are getting a 38% return on their investment.

and besides, they voted to approve him to make political contributions on social issues. they clearly dont have a problem with it.

The shareholder made his remark after the board was given approval by a vote to make political contributions, with board members saying they wanted flexibility to promote the company’s policy agenda.

But after Mr Strobhar suggested the measure decreased the company’s value, Mr Schultz’s response was vitriolic – and was met with raucous applause.



i think his job is safe.





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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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Last I heard the number was 58% in favor of gay marriage and rising.

CEOs have endorsed social issues for quite a while. Starbucks has been granting domestic partners medical coverage for several years now. Several large local companies have. His position isn't anything new, it has been widely known and part of the company's core values. If, as a shareholder or employee you don't read them, that is your problem.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
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Should companies be campaigning for laws that don't effect their operations? "

I'm not sure how ethical it is for companies to endorse laws on social issues not related to their bottom line. Unless the CEO has sent out some sort of shareholder survey asking for a vote on the issue, it's a bit disingenuous to endorse an issue on behalf of all those shareholders. Just because they invest in your coffee company doesn't mean they agree with the CEO's personal opinions on gay marriage, for instance. That said, if the CEO pisses off enough shareholders, they'll get rid of him.


As the CEO said, "feel free to sell your shares and invest in another company." <-- that may be paraphrased.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [patf] [ In reply to ]
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patf wrote:
People are comparing this to the stand taken by the Chick-fil-a CEO, but is there a difference? I think the Chick-Fil-a CEO's stand was done as a private person, not as the CEO of a a company. Where as the article said Starbucks came out in favor of some law.

Should companies be campaigning for laws that don't effect their operations? I'm ok with a company lobbying for various work practice reforms, health insurance issues, etc, but I really don't like to see companies spending their resources on social issues. Just because this issue is one that you may agree with, what if if it was one you did not agree with, would you still be happy about a company using resources for social issues?

If I'm not a shareholder I don't care. If I am, I may have a good look if those "resources being used for social issues" will lead to increased shareholder value. In Starbucks' case, this may well be the case; as mentioned above it is very likely that the core of sbux customer base looks favorably at this standpoint, so it may well lead to more coffee sold.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [veganerd] [ In reply to ]
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"i think his job is safe. "

I don't disagree. My comments were intended to be more in general, than specific to this case.

Slowguy

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Old Hickory] [ In reply to ]
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Old Hickory wrote:
trail wrote:
Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.


OMG. Am I gay because I too love a nice clean food service business?

I too love a clean well lit place...with coffee.
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [patf] [ In reply to ]
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You're right about the chicken/coffee difference.

To the rest of your points, I think companies/CEOs/employees can say whatever they want, in whatever capacity they choose and be willing to suffer the consequences (or reap the rewards) as they happen. Or they can keep their mouths shut.

I disagree with chicken dude's stance on SSM but it didn't affect whether or not I'm going to eat at chick-full-gay. I've never eaten there, but it has nothing to do gay marriage.

I think it's risky to tell shareholders to "take their money elsewhere" but, Starbucks has the advantage of selling an addictive product. They will be fine.

They might lose some constomers in Spokane but I'm sure it will be offset in Hillcrest.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [burnman] [ In reply to ]
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burnman wrote:
veganerd wrote:
Old Hickory wrote:
trail wrote:
Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.


OMG. Am I gay because I too love a nice clean food service business?


no, hickory, youre gay because you clearly love hard wood.


I'm straight as an arrow, but I love hard wood too. Just the other day, I sat on some hard wood for several hours and it was quite pleasurable. Everyone should own a cherry rocker ...

So that's what you call it when you're getting your cherry rocked.
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patf wrote:
People are comparing this to the stand taken by the Chick-fil-a CEO, but is there a difference? I think the Chick-Fil-a CEO's stand was done as a private person, not as the CEO of a a company.

You are mistaken. This persistent myth has continued to go around the LR, despite links to news reports to the contrary. Chick-Fil-a's "stand" was realized through funds given by the company itself to anti-SSM groups.

In my personal opinion, Chick-Fil-A has a right to do this, just as some of the rest of us have a right to criticize the company for its stand and actions. But whatever one thinks about that, it wasn't just a personal stand by the CEO.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
slowguy wrote:
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Should companies be campaigning for laws that don't effect their operations? "

I'm not sure how ethical it is for companies to endorse laws on social issues not related to their bottom line. Unless the CEO has sent out some sort of shareholder survey asking for a vote on the issue, it's a bit disingenuous to endorse an issue on behalf of all those shareholders. Just because they invest in your coffee company doesn't mean they agree with the CEO's personal opinions on gay marriage, for instance. That said, if the CEO pisses off enough shareholders, they'll get rid of him.


As the CEO said, "feel free to sell your shares and invest in another company." <-- that may be paraphrased.

I think there's a fiduciary obligation to shareholders to maximize profits, either in the short or long run. A CEO (or Board) cannot simply avoid or discharge that fiduciary duty by telling shareholders to invest elsewhere if they don't like it. At a minimum, corporate donations to social or policial causes still should not conflict with that obligation. (I'm not making a comment about Starbucks, as it very well may be that their donations are in line with miaximizing profits.)
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [AlanShearer] [ In reply to ]
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I don't think that's entirely true, since some companies market their stock specifically on the premise that they are "socially responsible" companies--meaning that they don't just look to the financial bottom line, but consider other objectives as well, in line with their investors' expectations.

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It's easy to stand up for principles when they dovetail neatly with your business plan. Given Starbucks' demographics and branding (which existed long before this issue), it's kind of a no-brainer to market to gays. Gays love a nice, clean coffee shop! Sounds like a stereotype, but I've lived in San Francisco, Seattle, and Hillcrest here in San Diego. I know what I'm talking about.

I didn't know you were gay. ; ^ )


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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
Yes, I suppose you could...

*Change* Imagine that, a CEO that stands up for what is right.

And no I will not agree that Chick-fil-A CEO is standing up for what is right.

No true Scotsman would be against gay marriage, anyway.


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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Eppur si muove] [ In reply to ]
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Eppur si muove wrote:
I don't think that's entirely true, since some companies market their stock specifically on the premise that they are "socially responsible" companies--meaning that they don't just look to the financial bottom line, but consider other objectives as well, in line with their investors' expectations.

Patagonia is a perfect example of this. They explicitly advocate for (or against) specific environmental policies, projects, etc. Their stances on issues are right there in their clothing catalogs.

They also make very good products.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Eppur si muove] [ In reply to ]
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They also recognize the benefit to their current and future employees.

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [JenSw] [ In reply to ]
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>They also recognize the benefit to their current and future employees.

Right, to continue with my blatant stereotyping - judge the average gayness of male baristas. I'm guessing the percentage is quite a bit higher than the general population.
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [trail] [ In reply to ]
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They know that getting top talent is hard. In this area, where their corp is located, domestic partner benefits are common. Companies are supporting gay marriage. Welcome to liberal Seattle!

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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Smart. And good on them.
In 30 years, when gay marriage is no longer an issue, Starbucks will be able to hold their heads up high while Chick-Fil-A will hope no one remembers their stance.

Reminds me of the public individuals and companies that stood against black civil rights in the 50's & 60's. A few decades later they were either backpeddaling or hoping no one remembered that time...

Remember - It's important to be comfortable in your own skin... because it turns out society frowns on wearing other people's
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Doubletime] [ In reply to ]
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Doubletime wrote:
Smart. And good on them.
In 30 years, when gay marriage is no longer an issue, Starbucks will be able to hold their heads up high while Chick-Fil-A will hope no one remembers their stance.

I wouldn't compare the two. Chick-Fil-A guy was speaking from his personal opinion, not as the CEO of the company/company stance.
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No, see correction in a previous post.

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I don't think that's entirely true, since some companies market their stock specifically on the premise that they are "socially responsible" companies--meaning that they don't just look to the financial bottom line, but consider other objectives as well, in line with their investors' expectations.


I don't have a problem so long as reasonable efforts were made to notify all prospective shareholders of the socially responsible approach before they invest.

But I also think that in many cases "socially responsible" also serves as a tool to distinguish a product, especially in a saturated market.
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Companies typically do by doing press releases, etc. Any person who cares about such things can find out about a company's official stand by reading the interwebs.

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A question.

He tells someone it about diversity and then tells him to pound sand because he doesn't like said persons, or anyone who thinks as he does, views?? Is that really diversity? It seems pretty clear that he is not being diverse but diverse in his mind because it fits his views or the bottom line. True diversity would need no rules.


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"No, see correction in a previous post"

I think the two are somewhat comparable. Both Starbucks and Chik-Fil-A, as companies, support legislative agendas with money and other support. Chik-Fil-A's gay marriage support was through a charitable foundation associated with the company. Separately, both companies had senior reps who made statements personally. The Starbucks guy (CEO) speaking to this shareholder, and the Chik-Fil-A guy (COO) made some statements on a talk radio show.

The significant difference is that Chik-Fil-A is a family owned, and not publiclly traded (I don't think) company. No shareholders to please.

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I agree that they are similar, I was correcting the assumption that the Chick was a personal opinion when corp money was involved.

Companies have funded candidates for office which is an extension of supporting that candidate's agenda. This is no different except they specifically called out a social issue.

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Rodred wrote:
A question.

He tells someone it about diversity and then tells him to pound sand because he doesn't like said persons, or anyone who thinks as he does, views?? Is that really diversity? It seems pretty clear that he is not being diverse but diverse in his mind because it fits his views or the bottom line. True diversity would need no rules.

I think "diversity" is highly overrated. Any reasonable concept of "diversity" should not preclude persons or organizations, including companies, from taking a particular stand over other possible positions. If I don't give equal time to cannibalism in my posts (neatly skirting Godwin's law here), am I at fault for not practicing "diversity"?

If you really want to practice "diversity," I think you now owe us a post telling us why diversity is bad. ;)

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The notions of recognizing and "accepting" diversity have long provided an ample source of facepalm. How can one promote diversity by consolidating comparable, yet distinct, constituents under a common banner? Isn't that more akin to homogenization?

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I'd like to see a cage match between the chicken killing homo hater and brokebucks mountain man. They could where some tight shorts and get all sweaty and the first one to pop a woody gets a lifetime supply of the loser's product.

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Duffy wrote:
I'd like to see a cage match between the chicken killing homo hater and brokebucks mountain man. They could where some tight shorts and get all sweaty and the first one to pop a woody gets a lifetime supply of the loser's product.



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Its family money and a family company. The family has an opinion and it just so happens that they own a company.


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And both SBUX and Chick-whatever are doing what they think is right for their company. People can choose to give that company money or not.

Although, now that I think about it, in a family owned business I think they have to keep their personal finances separate. So, the company is a separate entity. So this isn't a family donating their money, it is a company.

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If that's neatly skirting I would be interested in seeing some sloppy skirting.

So should we call the company intolerant for not respecting an individuals view?We aaren't talking about a belief that is held by a dozen people in the world.


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At the end of the day who's money is it?

Chik-fil-a was doing what was right according to their beliefs and not what was best for the company. Their personal beliefs had no bearing on the business practices as it relatesd to the topic.


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But it does have bearing if they used company funds for it. If they personally gave money from their own pockets, that's different.

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"But it does have bearing if they used company funds for it. If they personally gave money from their own pockets, that's different. "

From a legal perspective, obviously there's a difference between company and personal funds. But from a practical standpoint, in this case where there are no shareholders, company money IS family money. It's just in a different pot in the family budget.

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JenSw wrote:
But it does have bearing if they used company funds for it. If they personally gave money from their own pockets, that's different.

If they didnt discriminate then why does it matter?

On a side note I give credit to both men for not being afraid and saying what they believe in and not apologizing. I wish we had more of that because at least at some level I can respect someone who says who they are and acts accordingly. That is one of my big frustrations with politicians and ideologues. Especially the current batch in charge.


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Rodred wrote:
If that's neatly skirting I would be interested in seeing some sloppy skirting.

I think the whole Lewinsky thing would be an example of what you're looking for.
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I'm looking at the technicalities of it, not whether their opinions are right or wrong.

Earlier in the thread the distinction between SBUX and Chick was that SBUX is public and the company is speaking up on a social issue. I don't see the difference between that and what Chick did since they are both under the umbrella of the company.

I imagine somewhere there is a tax code about this and donating in the company's name is better for them financially than donating personally. Otherwise, why do it?

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"I imagine somewhere there is a tax code about this and donating in the company's name is better for them financially than donating personally. Otherwise, why do it?"

The donations, as I understand it, were not made in the name of the company, but in the name of the owning family's charitable foundation, the WinShape Foundation. It's tied to the restaurants, but still separate.

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Ah. That's different.

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BLeP wrote:
TashaSkippy wrote:
Love the Starbuck's CEO. He is also an advocate for following state laws regarding firearms. He gets flack from anti gunners because he says that if states allow citizens to carry, they are welcome at Starbucks. Drives the gun control proponents crazy when he tells them he won't post "no carry" signs in any of his retail locations.

Basically, it sounds like he pisses off anyone that has issues with personal freedoms. That is my kind of CEO.


Interestingly, (to me anyway) a large portion of the people who believe in the personal freedom that the 2nd amendment provides do not believe in gays should have the right to marry each other.


I am not sure that is really accurate. I, for one, believe in 2A and believe gays should have the right to marry. Off the top of my head, most of the individuals who jump into the 2A threads in support of firearms feel the same way.

Also, you are comparing apples to oranges. The Constitution specifically delineates the right to bear arms. It says nothing about marriage. Of course, people like me argue that the 14th prohibits discrimination b/t same and opposite sex marriage. But, marriage itself is not a specific right set forth in the Constitution.

There is no marriage ceremony in the Bible either! Some people think that means when you have sex,YOU ARE MARRIED! So from that theory if gays have sex,they are married,lol.
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I think, by definition, they cannot have sex.* And by definition, they cannot marry.* Only when you expand the definition of these two terms can they do either. Therein lies the rub, and that is why I believe that marriage "equality" is a false narrative. If gays want to cohabitate and be recognized as partners or husband+husband or wife+wife, ok, fine, I'll go with that, I'm all for civil rights. But to call it marriage, which in the United States has always been between man and woman, is a false argument.

Some simplified legal background for anybody who's interested: According to SCOTUS, the Constitution protects the "fundamental rights" of Americans from government infringement. The question is, what is a "fundamental right?" Well, in Roe v. Wade, IIRC from law school many moon ago, abortion was deemed a "fundamental right" because it had always been done in America since before the country's founding, and it has always been done since the founding. Using that logic, since marriage between a man and woman, both before and after 1776, has always been done, then marriage between a man and woman should be a fundamental right. And since it has never been between man+man or woman+woman, it cannot, therefore, using Roe v. Wade logic, be a fundamental right. Perhaps under other protections found in the Constitution, SCOTUS will find a way to expand the definition of marriage and deem it protected, but it will not be marriage as we know it.

*I have not looked up these words, and I do not care to. These are the commonly accepted usages of the terms, and anybody who says otherwise is dreaming. I'm sure somebody will google the definitions and find some website or print dictionary that includes gay sex and gay marriage. Good for you. I think if you're honest that you want to expand the definition of marriage rather than claim that it's some inviolable right that you're somehow being cheated out of, you'll find more support. The truth will set you free.

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And since it has never been between man+man or woman+woman, it cannot, therefore, using Roe v. Wade logic, be a fundamental right.

Correction...marriage has been expanded to include man+man and woman+woman over the last few years in some states. I wanted to correct that before this went off on a 20-post tangent as to how I was incorrect about using the word "never."

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I think, by definition, they cannot have sex.* And by definition, they cannot marry.* Only when you expand the definition of these two terms can they do either.
Sounds familiar...




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Yes, well, he was right lol. A cigar is not a penis.

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Yes, well, he was right lol. A cigar is not a penis.

And a mouth is not a vagina.

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well.....


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So should we call the company intolerant for not respecting an individuals view?
No. We don't call people "intolerant" because they vociferously insist that 2 + 2 isn't 5.


Rodred wrote:
We aaren't talking about a belief that is held by a dozen people in the world.
2 + 2 isn't 5 regardless of whether the number of adherents to that belief is zero, or a dozen, or the entire world population.

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I'll never forget this one girl in school. She was a sweatheart and we got along very well. I only wish I stole her from her boyfriend.

She was the stereotypical long island girl. Jewish. Lived on the beach. Came from $. Uber liberal, but not a militant. When she had to live in a "diverse" neighborhood for school, she told me "I don't like diversity anymore" Apparently, a bunch of people living in a neighborhood who speak different languages, dress differently, practice different religions, have ddifferent morals, don't speak to each other and don't get along. Who would have thunk it?

Diversity, like many catchy words and phrases, is bs. As you said, the ones who preach it are among the least intolerable of different viewpoints. Diversity, in their minds, is everybody doing whatever they want free from criticism.

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Funny! I loled at work!
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Eppur si muove] [ In reply to ]
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"No. We don't call people "intolerant" because they vociferously insist that 2 + 2 isn't 5."

Unfortunately for all those who are so positive they are righteous, subjects like same sex marriage aren't quite as clear cut as 2+2.

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The fact that everyone may not agree that an issue is clear-cut doesn't mean that you shouldn't stand up for your beliefs.

EDITED: To remove double negative.

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"The fact that everyone may not agree that an issue is clear-cut doesn't mean that you shouldn't stand up for your beliefs. "

Of course not. However, there's a difference between tolerating diversity in opinion about the sum of 2+2, and tolerating diversity in opinion about subjects like same sex marriage.

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slowguy wrote:
"The fact that everyone may not agree that an issue is clear-cut doesn't mean that you shouldn't stand up for your beliefs. "

Of course not. However, there's a difference between tolerating diversity in opinion about the sum of 2+2, and tolerating diversity in opinion about subjects like same sex marriage.


And without God's Laws, morality becomes whim, majority opinion, breakable social contract, or outright brute force. This court case is a perfect of example of what happens when society abandons God's Laws and goes with moral relativism according to man. The victory goes to whoever shouts the loudest or coerces the courts and politicians toward their view. And politicians always cave to the most vocal! Calling believers stupid, backward-thinking, intolerant, and uneducated is just part of the rock throwing. Standing up for beliefs becomes opinion and there is no tie-breaker in the conundrum of, "I'm right and you are wrong" without God's help.
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>I think, by definition, they cannot have sex.* And by definition, they cannot marry.* Only when you expand the definition of these two terms can they do either. Therein lies the rub, and that is why I believe that marriage "equality" is a false narrative.

Even if I accepted your conveniently narrow definitions, which I don't.....

No heterosexual couple has ever been denied marriage despite a biological inability to have children. And, believe it or not, some married people never have sex. So by your definition lots of people were never "married." And neither any state government for the Feds have ever stated these things as a precondition for marriage, or verified them after the fact. And governments are supposed to treat citizens uniformly.

I don't think your cleverly fabricated logic is nearly as clever as you think it is.
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Gurudriver10 wrote:
slowguy wrote:
"The fact that everyone may not agree that an issue is clear-cut doesn't mean that you shouldn't stand up for your beliefs. "

Of course not. However, there's a difference between tolerating diversity in opinion about the sum of 2+2, and tolerating diversity in opinion about subjects like same sex marriage.



And without God's Laws, morality becomes whim, majority opinion, breakable social contract, or outright brute force. This court case is a perfect of example of what happens when society abandons God's Laws and goes with moral relativism according to man. The victory goes to whoever shouts the loudest or coerces the courts and politicians toward their view. And politicians always cave to the most vocal! Calling believers stupid, backward-thinking, intolerant, and uneducated is just part of the rock throwing. Standing up for beliefs becomes opinion and there is no tie-breaker in the conundrum of, "I'm right and you are wrong" without God's help.

Your god's laws are not relevant to the laws of the country. The courts are deciding a case that impacts our nation's laws. You may believe in a religion that justifies the discrimination, but I don't see how that's a consideration in what the courts are deciding. Adding the arbitrary rules of a god not everyone believes in would undermine the entire process.

I'm all for people standing up for their beliefs even when I disagree with them. Individuals or groups should not be forced to perform or condone same sex marriages. But to deny other people the same rights that you have is a direct parralel to gender or racial discrimination and downright malicious.

Back on topic, I'm proud of the Starbucks CEO for being vocal on a topical issue such as this. His coffee is still pretty bad, but I might be more willing to buy some than I was before. Similarly, I like that the Chick Fila (sp?) guy had some courage to make the statements he did. I just won't every buy any of his product again.



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Tell it to the "men of the cloth" that fuck little boys.

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slowguy wrote:
However, there's a difference between tolerating diversity in opinion about the sum of 2+2, and tolerating diversity in opinion about subjects like same sex marriage.


Correct. One of the two topics is so simple that even most conservatives can figure it out.

EDIT TO ADD: I'm sure you feel much better now that Guru is agreeing with you. ;)

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AFAIR Slowguy is a Christian so it should come as no real surprise that he and Guru agree on this.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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What happens is more people can get married. Are you for sodomy laws? Want to trot out some Leviticus to explain why homosexuals are abominations?
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True, but Guru's post to him was weak even by his own standards, and I'm sure Slowguy is bright enough to recognize that.

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>I think, by definition, they cannot have sex.* And by definition, they cannot marry.* Only when you expand the definition of these two terms can they do either. Therein lies the rub, and that is why I believe that marriage "equality" is a false narrative.

Even if I accepted your conveniently narrow definitions, which I don't.....

No heterosexual couple has ever been denied marriage despite a biological inability to have children. And, believe it or not, some married people never have sex. So by your definition lots of people were never "married." And neither any state government for the Feds have ever stated these things as a precondition for marriage, or verified them after the fact. And governments are supposed to treat citizens uniformly.

I don't think your cleverly fabricated logic is nearly as clever as you think it is.

I think you misunderstood my post. Marriage is a union of man and woman. I domt know where the inability to have children comes into the equation. Nor do I know where sex between the man and woman comes into play as far as being a prerequisite to marriage. I didnt say or imply that. I think you might have seen me use the two terms and assumed that i believe that one is a prerequisite for the other. Seeing as how i didnt put out a definititon, i can see how you got confused. I thoght i was clear that marriage is the union of man and womam and therefore a man and a man cannot be married.

Yes, governments are supposed to treat people uniformly, in theory, although that was not the intent behind the equal protectiom clause. The intent was to preclude segragationalist laws from harming freed slaves. But I'm not sure how that plays into my argument. Im talkimg about Roev Wade and fundamental righta. They are two separate and distinct areas of Constitutional law and one cannot conflate them. As I said, the Court migt use other parts of the Constitution to expand marriage. One part might be the equal protectiom clause. But, marriage is no longer marriage then because the participants are no longer the same. If you're familiar with the two areas of law and want to discuss each one, I'd be happy to.

I'm not sure where we disagree. I think if you re-read my post, youll see where the misunderatamding is.

And yes, it is a clever argument. But I can't take credit for it. It's based on decades of case law and cannons of interpretation.

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>I domt know where the inability to have children comes into the equation.

Weren't you just narrowly defining sex to be something that only happens between heterosexual couples, and using that definition as a necessary condition for marriage?

Edit: OK, maybe I just assumed you were re-packing the sexual procreation argument, but maybe you weren't.
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"AFAIR Slowguy is a Christian so it should come as no real surprise that he and Guru agree on this. "

I'm not sure what you think Guru and I agree about. I posted about how diversity of opinion relates to math vs social policy, and Guru posted a non-sequitor about man's laws vs God's laws. I may be the single most critical person of guru on this forum, precisely because he poorly represents (in my opinion) Christian teaching and logic.

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>i can see how you got confused. I thoght i was clear that marriage is the union of man and womam and therefore a man and a man cannot be married.

Yeah, but is there a rational basis for it? I don't think there is. The possible rational bases are things like:

1) Marriage is for procreation, and gays can't procreate.
2) It's better for the children. Children are more likely to be happy successful people with they have heterosexual parents.
3) It damages the institution of marriage in some way.

1) is true, but has never been used by a government as a precondition for hetero marriage.

2) is inconclusive at best.

3) is hogwash.

Are there any other rational bases?

Just because "it's always been that way" doesn't cut it as legal argument, as far as I know.
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If gays want to cohabitate and be recognized as partners or husband+husband or wife+wife, ok, fine, I'll go with that, I'm all for civil rights. But to call it marriage, which in the United States has always been between man and woman, is a false argument.

Circa 1967: "If a black and a white want to cohabitate and be recognized as partners or husband+wife, ok, fine, I'll go with that, I'm all for civil rights. But to call it marriage, which in the state of Virginia has always been between a man and a woman of the same race, is a false argument."

Circa 1840: "If a woman wants to walking into a voting booth and write something on a piece of paper, I'll go with that, I'm all for female freedom of speech. But to call it voting, which in the United States has always been between a man and a ballot box, is a false argument."

Circa 1789: "If people want to set up a new system for enacting and enforcing laws and base it on popular representative, fine, I'm all for novel experiments. But to call it government, which in Western civilization has always been between a monarch and his people, is a false argument."

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Are there any other rational bases?

It's icky.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Gurudriver10 wrote:
slowguy wrote:
"And without God's Laws, morality becomes whim, majority opinion, breakable social contract, or outright brute force. This court case is a perfect of example of what happens when society abandons God's Laws and goes with moral relativism according to man."

Your god's laws are not relevant to the laws of the country.


Too late, my God's Laws helped start this country! Abandonment of them only shows that man's morality is based on whim, majority opinion, bullying, etc. How do you propose to keep it from being so, ending up in a yelling match every time a special interest group wants their way, Andrew?
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Tell it to the "men of the cloth" that fuck little boys.


Not God's Law nor Will. They know they are wrong and that's why there is a cover-up by that church.
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What happens is more people can get married. Are you for sodomy laws? Want to trot out some Leviticus to explain why homosexuals are abominations?


It's not marriage and there's no equality of marriage here. Otherwise, we would just call any union marriage. We don't! So calling marriage "equality" = to God's plan for marriage doesn't make it so. It would still be sodomy either way. Pronouncing some union on gays doesn't change the reality thereof.
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Eppur si muove wrote:
slowguy wrote:
However, there's a difference between tolerating diversity in opinion about the sum of 2+2, and tolerating diversity in opinion about subjects like same sex marriage.


Correct. One of the two topics is so simple that even most conservatives can figure it out.

EDIT TO ADD: I'm sure you feel much better now that Guru is agreeing with you. ;)


Thanks for the ad hom attack! Fallacious on its face, which means you have a weak case. I thought better of you Eppur.
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>It's icky.

Same argument as #1! Google-fu will quickly inform you on some of the stupendous things heterocouples do to each other, and even those things that are actually *illegal* have never been used by government to deny marriage. I'm pretty sure a felon child rapist in prison is allowed to be legally married to a hetero pen-pal.
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True, but Guru's post to him was weak even by his own standards, and I'm sure Slowguy is bright enough to recognize that.


No it's not and you still haven't answered last week's question I put to you. You slunk away, unable to bring anything to the table.
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Guru, seriously, you are going downhill. It shows not only in your hysterical arguments, but even in your deteriorating writing style.

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>It's icky.

Same argument as #1! Google-fu will quickly inform you on some of the stupendous things heterocouples do to each other, and even those things that are actually *illegal* have never been used by government to deny marriage. I'm pretty sure a felon child rapist in prison is allowed to be legally married to a hetero pen-pal.

I was being facetious.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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"AFAIR Slowguy is a Christian so it should come as no real surprise that he and Guru agree on this. "

I'm not sure what you think Guru and I agree about. I posted about how diversity of opinion relates to math vs social policy, and Guru posted a non-sequitor about man's laws vs God's laws. I may be the single most critical person of guru on this forum, precisely because he poorly represents (in my opinion) Christian teaching and logic.


You missed it. You were discussing with Eppur opinion vs. fact with regard to morality and I interjected how an objective standard was needed as tie-breaker here. Otherwise, the opinion vs. fact with regard to morality boils down to majority opinion, bullying, whim, etc. This is the crux of the issue. Please keep up!
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Guru, seriously, you are going downhill. It shows not only in your hysterical arguments, but even in your deteriorating writing style.


Right, I'm just crazy or hysterical. If you can't counteract someone's argument, just call them names. Very nice.
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He didn't say that you were hysterical; he said that your argument was hysterical.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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The 1789 and 1840 examples are not congruent to the gay marriage debate as they were questions of democratic process, not judicial review, which is what's going on today at SCOTUS. The 1967 example was a direct violation of the equal protection clause and was a no-brainer, IMO. The EP clause, a result of democratic process, was to prevent discrimination against blacks. The law at question in Loving v Virginia was a direct violation of the EP clause.

Here, democratic process is being potentially usurped. Nationally, the people have not spoken yet as to equal protection for gays in the context of marriage, not through legislation or Constitutional Amendment. That being said, SCOTUS may twist the EP clause to mean that it protects gy marriage. That was not the intent of the EP clause, but SCOTUS has often interpreted the Constitution to suit their desired ends.

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AFAIR Slowguy is a Christian so it should come as no real surprise that he and Guru agree on this.

While I can't speak for Slowguy. I can say that I'm a Christian and there are quite a few that I know that don't totally agree with Guru's opinion. I will admit that my support of SSM puts my in the minority in the Church I attend. While I can understand their reasoning, from the scriptures that point out that the act of same sex sexual relationships is a sin, but we allow all other sinners to marry. Why are we saying that this type of Sin is considered greater than all others. Which goes against scripture that reads all sin is equal.

The issue is each side is applying their position to different standards so they will never agree.
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>i can see how you got confused. I thoght i was clear that marriage is the union of man and womam and therefore a man and a man cannot be married.

Yeah, but is there a rational basis for it? I don't think there is. The possible rational bases are things like:

1) Marriage is for procreation, and gays can't procreate.
2) It's better for the children. Children are more likely to be happy successful people with they have heterosexual parents.
3) It damages the institution of marriage in some way.

1) is true, but has never been used by a government as a precondition for hetero marriage.

2) is inconclusive at best.

3) is hogwash.

Are there any other rational bases?

Just because "it's always been that way" doesn't cut it as legal argument, as far as I know.

Rational basis does not come into play with fundamental rigts. If the Court considers Equal Protection, then it will look at these considerations. But, I genuinely do not know how rational basis applies tp Prop 8 aince it is not legislation...I sont know the legal classification of aProp 8.

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The 1789 and 1840 examples are not congruent to the gay marriage debate as they were questions of democratic process, not judicial review, which is what's going on today at SCOTUS. The 1967 example was a direct violation of the equal protection clause and was a no-brainer, IMO. The EP clause, a result of democratic process, was to prevent discrimination against blacks. The law at question in Loving v Virginia was a direct violation of the EP clause.

All three examples were directly relevant to the argument you presented, because they all (like your argument) are based on the same epistemological fallacy: assuming that concepts (in this case, the concepts of "marriage," "voting," and "government") are fixed in such a way that they can never subsume instances that differ in any respect from the instances one has encountered in the past.

Although the instances of a valid concept need to be distinguished from whatever is outside the concept by some difference in kind, it does not follow that there can be no differences in kind among the concept's instances. In particular, it does not follow that one cannot encounter new instances for a concept that differ in some way from those in one's past experience. If you've only seen white swans in the past, that doesn't preclude you from understanding that the black bird you just spotted is a swan.

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"You missed it"

No I didn't.

"You were discussing with Eppur opinion vs. fact with regard to morality "

I was actually discussing the difference between math and social policy as they relate to tolerance of diversity in opinion.

Your babbling was a non sequitor. It was unrelated to the discussion taking place. And it was poorly reasoned, which makes it even worse.

"Please keep up! "

I have little desire to keep pace with your discussions.

Slowguy

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The 1789 and 1840 examples are not congruent to the gay marriage debate as they were questions of democratic process, not judicial review, which is what's going on today at SCOTUS. The 1967 example was a direct violation of the equal protection clause and was a no-brainer, IMO. The EP clause, a result of democratic process, was to prevent discrimination against blacks. The law at question in Loving v Virginia was a direct violation of the EP clause.

All three examples were directly relevant to the argument you presented, because they all (like your argument) are based on the same epistemological fallacy: assuming that concepts (in this case, the concepts of "marriage," "voting," and "government") are fixed in such a way that they can never subsume instances that differ in any respect from the instances one has encountered in the past.

Although the instances of a valid concept need to be distinguished from whatever is outside the concept by some difference in kind, it does not follow that there can be no differences in kind among the concept's instances. In particular, it does not follow that one cannot encounter new instances for a concept that differ in some way from those in one's past experience. If you've only seen white swans in the past, that doesn't preclude you from understanding that the black bird you just spotted is a swan.

Of course, relevant, but still not congruent from my perspective. My argument was based on the law (specifically Roe v Wade's definiion of fundamental rights). Outside of the legal context, yes, my argument is indefensible. Of course there could be a black swan. But, in the law, we work on precedent set by the courts and we cite it in argument to support our clients' end games. Welcome to the boring life of an attorney.

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Are you or are you not for laws against sodomy. The bible your source of all laws is pretty clear on this. How far are you willing to follow it? If we're not going to run about stoning people for various infractions, why should we use it to guide mortal law at all? What's your criteria for something that ought to be legislated based on the bible vs not? I would love to hear your reasoning for why somethings should be followed and others not.
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Gurudriver10 wrote:
AMT04 wrote:
Gurudriver10 wrote:
"And without God's Laws, morality becomes whim, majority opinion, breakable social contract, or outright brute force. This court case is a perfect of example of what happens when society abandons God's Laws and goes with moral relativism according to man."



Your god's laws are not relevant to the laws of the country.



Too late, my God's Laws helped start this country! Abandonment of them only shows that man's morality is based on whim, majority opinion, bullying, etc. How do you propose to keep it from being so, ending up in a yelling match every time a special interest group wants their way, Andrew?

This isn't a special interest group wanting it's way. This is the majority speaking out that it's time to stop discriminating against a minority special interest group. As a nation, we're taking an objective look at a situation that is fundamentaly against the values of the country. We have a history of realizing that certain laws or systems discriminate unfairly against specific groups and then fixing it. We have a defined process for fixing problems that were not addressed 230 years ago, and when we fix those problems, the only thing being "abandoned" are our own internal problems.

You want an objective basis to fight against special interest groups wanting their way, then you propose that the belief system of your special interest group be used as that basis. I propose instead to use rational discussion, objective morals and common sense. Those seem to be in short supply sometimes, but I'll take them anyway.



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Okay, I didn't recognize that you intended that as a legal argument. It sounded too much like what you read read on bumper stickers about the topic (you know, like "marriage = 1 man + 1 woman").

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Are you or are you not for laws against sodomy. The bible your source of all laws is pretty clear on this. How far are you willing to follow it? If we're not going to run about stoning people for various infractions, why should we use it to guide mortal law at all? What's your criteria for something that ought to be legislated based on the bible vs not? I would love to hear your reasoning for why somethings should be followed and others not.


Who is talking about stoning people?!? We don't live in Israel before the Messiah. When you said, "guide mortal law" did you mean "guide moral law"? All laws derive from our morality, of course. As for what do we follow, I think the commandment against adultery is pretty clear and the prophets, Jesus, Paul, Timothy, John, and Peter all uphold the law against it.
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AMT04 wrote:
Gurudriver10 wrote:
AMT04 wrote:
Gurudriver10 wrote:
"And without God's Laws, morality becomes whim, majority opinion, breakable social contract, or outright brute force. This court case is a perfect of example of what happens when society abandons God's Laws and goes with moral relativism according to man."



Your god's laws are not relevant to the laws of the country.



Too late, my God's Laws helped start this country! Abandonment of them only shows that man's morality is based on whim, majority opinion, bullying, etc. How do you propose to keep it from being so, ending up in a yelling match every time a special interest group wants their way, Andrew?


This isn't a special interest group wanting it's way. This is the majority speaking out that it's time to stop discriminating against a minority special interest group. As a nation, we're taking an objective look at a situation that is fundamentaly against the values of the country. We have a history of realizing that certain laws or systems discriminate unfairly against specific groups and then fixing it. We have a defined process for fixing problems that were not addressed 230 years ago, and when we fix those problems, the only thing being "abandoned" are our own internal problems.

You want an objective basis to fight against special interest groups wanting their way, then you propose that the belief system of your special interest group be used as that basis. I propose instead to use rational discussion, objective morals and common sense. Those seem to be in short supply sometimes, but I'll take them anyway.


The problem here is any special interest group can hijack the media and political system to get laws to fit their needs no matter how immoral their position. What if a group decides on a whim to make it lawful to have sex with or marry children? What is to stop them? What makes them right and the rest of us wrong? They can take over the media, normalize the acts, and then bend Congress and Legisl. arm to get it approved. We're just opening the door here by altering the definition of marriage. You may not see this on the horizon now but what happens in 50 or a 100 years? It's morality by whim, majority opinion, and bullying.

What gives anyone the right to change fundamental definitions? That's not discrimination. That's upholding what is normal and right. We all know that a household with a strong male/female, long-term marriage is by far the best for children.
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My diction was deliberate. I used mortal law referring to laws of men as opposed to laws of god. What does adultery have to do with anything? I'm certain you don't follow every rule in the bible. I'm also sure that you choose not to follow some of them. So tell me why this one should be? What is your criteria for choosing which parts of the bible you should follow and which can be ignored?
Let's go even further. Explain to me why we shouldn't follow sharia law? It purports to be gods law. Why not allow Judaism to inform our laws? Is the old testament not to your liking?
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The problem here is any special interest group can hijack the media and political system to get laws to fit their needs no matter how immoral their position. What if a group decides on a whim to make it lawful to have sex with or marry children? What is to stop them? What makes them right and the rest of us wrong? They can take over the media, normalize the acts, and then bend Congress and Legisl. arm to get it approved. We're just opening the door here by altering the definition of marriage. You may not see this on the horizon now but what happens in 50 or a 100 years? It's morality by whim, majority opinion, and bullying.

What gives anyone the right to change fundamental definitions? That's not discrimination. That's upholding what is normal and right. We all know that a household with a strong male/female, long-term marriage is by far the best for children.

Wow.

First, a large majority of the people I know do not think that a male/female long term marriage is best for children.

Second, 'normal' and 'right' do not always fit together. I got back to racial and gender discrimination. Those things were considered "normal and right" at the time, but no moral or ethical person still believes that today.

Third, I could care less about the definition of the word marriage. This isn't a discussion of semantics. We can call same sex marriage anything. I'd be fine with having religious unions be known as "marriage" and civil unions be known as, well, "civil unions" if that's all this is about to you. The only thing that matters is ensuring that they're treated exactly the same when it comes legal, fiduciary and all other aspects.

Fourth, I can't think of a single objective argument that makes same sex marriage immoral. Only within your religions viewpoint is it immoral. This issue forces nothing on you and shouldn't impact you at all. The only way it could matter to you is if you want to force the rules of your religion on other people, which IS objectively immoral and disgusting.



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Will you marry me? It would be legal...

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Wow.

First, a large majority of the people I know do not think that a male/female long term marriage is best for children.

Second, 'normal' and 'right' do not always fit together. I got back to racial and gender discrimination. Those things were considered "normal and right" at the time, but no moral or ethical person still believes that today.

Third, I could care less about the definition of the word marriage. This isn't a discussion of semantics. We can call same sex marriage anything. I'd be fine with having religious unions be known as "marriage" and civil unions be known as, well, "civil unions" if that's all this is about to you. The only thing that matters is ensuring that they're treated exactly the same when it comes legal, fiduciary and all other aspects.

Fourth, I can't think of a single objective argument that makes same sex marriage immoral. Only within your religions viewpoint is it immoral. This issue forces nothing on you and shouldn't impact you at all. The only way it could matter to you is if you want to force the rules of your religion on other people, which IS objectively immoral and disgusting.

To be clear: morality and objective arguments seldom go hand in hand; for good reason. Morality is subjective on its face and throughout, immorality in this case is no different. Its not only his religions point of view. The majority of organized religions don't support same sex marriage.



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My diction was deliberate. I used mortal law referring to laws of men as opposed to laws of god. What does adultery have to do with anything? I'm certain you don't follow every rule in the bible. I'm also sure that you choose not to follow some of them. So tell me why this one should be? What is your criteria for choosing which parts of the bible you should follow and which can be ignored?
Let's go even further. Explain to me why we shouldn't follow sharia law? It purports to be gods law. Why not allow Judaism to inform our laws? Is the old testament not to your liking?


Such an excellent question! I've addressed it many times before but I'll go over it again. Moses Law was 3 parts: Levitical (priestly), National, and Moral. Moral Law always stands because we must treat God and those made in His image with utmost respect. Jesus fulfilled all parts of the Law. Fulfilled, not negated. So, we don't sacrifice for sins anymore, Jesus being that final Sacrifice and we are not living in the nation of Israel under the old Covenant. We have a New Covenant with God through Jesus. So, we can wear wool/cotton and eat lobsters now. : ) If we lived in the OT in Israel, we would constantly be reminded of falling short of the hundreds, if not thousands of little prohibitions. But in the light of Jesus' Resurrection, we have freedom go directly to God through Jesus, our sins being forgiven.

And your question about whose law do we follow is a philosophical and religious one. We can discount other religious laws by philosophy, sans Bible. Do you want Sharia? Hell no! On its face we know Jesus' liberalism and equitable treatment of all is the better path through love of all people around us. Judaism? No, I explained why in the first paragraph. Excellent question!

But we need to ask a question. Is marriage an entity unto itself (male/female bonding) or can culture arbitrarily change that definition? Do we allow culture to incrementally change our morality or is there an objective source upon which we can rely? The problem I have with this as a believer is the same problem you have, asking "who do we follow?" You are not a Christian but I am. Who is correct between our two opposing views? If you are correct, there is no standard, morality floats, and is subject to cultural whim, majority opinion, breakable social contract, or brute force. But we know there are objective moral standards; therefore, your stance must be wrong.
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Fourth, I can't think of a single objective argument that makes same sex marriage immoral. Only within your religions viewpoint is it immoral. This issue forces nothing on you and shouldn't impact you at all. The only way it could matter to you is if you want to force the rules of your religion on other people, which IS objectively immoral and disgusting.


It affects me when the media is saturated with homosexuality. It then affects me when my kids are sexualized at an early age in the schools, public schools teaching them that what God calls sin is okay. Eventually, this opens the door to some rather bizarre interpretations of marriage in the future. What if someone wants to marry a 10 year old boy or girl in the future because the definition of marriage has been skewed? If you are going to allow culture to incrementally change moral definitions, where are the boundaries? Who is arbiter of morality in a society? It's not "immoral and disgusting" to uphold the traditional def. of marriage but it's a crime to let a decadent culture define it arbitrarily. You haven't thought this through.

Your first comment about male/female household not being the strongest is strange. I bet you were raised that way? I came from a broken home, however, and lamented not having a firm father figure. That affected me and still affects my decisions today. Kids need both examples, male and female. A strong male/female relationship at the head of a household is the best possible scenario. Trust me. I see that in kids who grew up with that. They are complete, confident, and generally know how to deal with groups. Prisons are full of kids from broken homes and that is one of the biggest common denominators in that population. A same sex home is one where a father or mother figure is not present. A broken home is the same. A two parent home where both parents love each other is by far the strongest, safest, and happiest home.
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Fourth, I can't think of a single objective argument that makes same sex marriage immoral. Only within your religions viewpoint is it immoral. This issue forces nothing on you and shouldn't impact you at all. The only way it could matter to you is if you want to force the rules of your religion on other people, which IS objectively immoral and disgusting.



It affects me when the media is saturated with homosexuality. It then affects me when my kids are sexualized at an early age in the schools, public schools teaching them that what God calls sin is okay. Eventually, this opens the door to some rather bizarre interpretations of marriage in the future. What if someone wants to marry a 10 year old boy or girl in the future because the definition of marriage has been skewed? If you are going to allow culture to incrementally change moral definitions, where are the boundaries? Who is arbiter of morality in a society? It's not "immoral and disgusting" to uphold the traditional def. of marriage but it's a crime to let a decadent culture define it arbitrarily. You haven't thought this through.

Your first comment about male/female household not being the strongest is strange. I bet you were raised that way? I came from a broken home, however, and lamented not having a firm father figure. That affected me and still affects my decisions today. Kids need both examples, male and female. A strong male/female relationship at the head of a household is the best possible scenario. Trust me. I see that in kids who grew up with that. They are complete, confident, and generally know how to deal with groups. Prisons are full of kids from broken homes and that is one of the biggest common denominators in that population. A same sex home is one where a father or mother figure is not present. A broken home is the same. A two parent home where both parents love each other is by far the strongest, safest, and happiest home.


If the biggest impact to you is that you're going to have to be a good parent, them I'm okay with it. A lot of us disagree strongly with aspects of society around us and worry about it impacting our kids, but we can't control that. I'm irritated that my son will have to be so heavily influenced by the saturation of religion in our society, but I would never dream of trying to make your religion illegal. Instead, I'm going to focus on being a good dad and help explain why some people believe in that stuff and reinforcing reliance critical thought, logic and reason.

You keep mentioning concern over changing moral values due to our "decedant" culture, but you ignore all the examples where we've done this in the past. Those changes were unquestionably the right thing to do, yet at the time, opponents to them would be saying the same thing as you. I would argue that we're changing nothing about the morality of society, only finally realizing the some of our norms are in conflict with our morals. It's absolutely critical that we incrementally change our country. Unless you want to apply the rules as they were in 1787, which come to think of it were incremental changes from the previous government...

Your last sentence is dead on. "A two parent home where both parents love each other is by far the strongest, safest, and happiest home". I agree fully with that. Which is exactly why this isn't an argument against SSM. A home with loving parents is best, regardless of the sexual orientation of those parents. A SSM home is not a broken home.



-Andrew
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AMT04 wrote:
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Instead, I'm going to focus on being a good dad and help explain why some people believe in that stuff and reinforcing reliance critical thought, logic and reason.


Totally agree and I've laid out several reasons why critical thought, logic, and reason dictate the question, "Do we let culture make changes to our basic morality? If so, where do we draw the line?" This thread has largely ignored the big question. That is an extra-Biblical, non-religious question. The problem with man's morality is it's based on whim, majority opinion, brute force, etc. Who says what is right to keep us from being decadent or totalitarian?
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Re: Starbucks (CEO) bitch slaps gay marriage opponent. [Gurudriver10] [ In reply to ]
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Conflating marriage rights for gay couples with marrying an underage minor is ridiculous. When you put forth such drivel, it becomes apparent to everyone how little you actually think. Give up on this, you clearly "haven't thought it through."
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original PV wrote:
To be clear: morality and objective arguments seldom go hand in hand; for good reason. Morality is subjective on its face and throughout, immorality in this case is no different. Its not only his religions point of view. The majority of organized religions don't support same sex marriage.

You assume that there is no way of basing morality on anything objective, and you also appear to assume that morality must come from religion. I believe that both assumptions are incorrect.

If, instead, we begin with the assumption that we should use words to refer to objective aspects of reality, then in the case of morality, we ask ourself just what objectively observable aspect of reality might moral terms ("good," "bad," "ought," etc.) reasonably be construed as referencing? That approach leads to a very different and very enlightening answer.

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Wow.

First, a large majority of the people I know do not think that a male/female long term marriage is best for children.


Really? Where do you live? I live in one of the most liberal places in the USA (Bay Area), and very few people that I know would agree with your statement. (is it a typo). Wait a second, are you saying that "male-female" vs. "two-parent"? In that case most people I know believe that a stable loving two parent household is best for raising a child (they don't believe that gay parents are any better or worse than straight parents). Nevermind... ;)
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oldandslow wrote:
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Wow.

First, a large majority of the people I know do not think that a male/female long term marriage is best for children.


Really? Where do you live? I live in one of the most liberal places in the USA (Bay Area), and very few people that I know would agree with your statement. (is it a typo). Wait a second, are you saying that "male-female" vs. "two-parent"? In that case most people I know believe that a stable loving two parent household is best for raising a child (they don't believe that gay parents are any better or worse than straight parents). Nevermind... ;)

Maybe I wasn't clear, but it looks like you figured it out. I was objecting to Guru's assertion that it must be a male/female marriage. Almost everyone I know agrees that a stable loving two parent household is ideal, but that whether those parents are same sex or opposite sex makes no difference.



-Andrew
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Eppur si muove wrote:
original PV wrote:
To be clear: morality and objective arguments seldom go hand in hand; for good reason. Morality is subjective on its face and throughout, immorality in this case is no different. Its not only his religions point of view. The majority of organized religions don't support same sex marriage.


You assume that there is no way of basing morality on anything objective, and you also appear to assume that morality must come from religion. I believe that both assumptions are incorrect.

If, instead, we begin with the assumption that we should use words to refer to objective aspects of reality, then in the case of morality, we ask ourself just what objectively observable aspect of reality might moral terms ("good," "bad," "ought," etc.) reasonably be construed as referencing? That approach leads to a very different and very enlightening answer.



Eppur,

Not that enlightening, actually. Again, your PhilMusings and this post fall short in many ways when compared to the greatest teacher who ever lived, who happened also to be 100% God and 100% man, Jesus. You view man as an organism with a brain but instead, man is a spiritual being, with a mind, who uses a brain and a body. Here are several flaws in your thinking as presented in the Bible:

1) INDIVIDUAL WORTH - You lack a way of assigning indiviudal worth. How do you go about assigning it to the individual? Jesus treated everyone with inherent worth, including “rejects” of society, who at that time would be lower than dirt, ie Lazarus who died on the same night as the rich man, the Samaritan woman at the well, and the prostitute who anointed his feet with expensive perfume. If you can’t assign individual worth, how can we be equal?

2) LOVING OTHERS - Jesus asked people to look through the 10 Commandments at their real, spiritual, “heart” attitudes. Looking at a woman with lust in your heart or imagining killing your friend constitutes breaking that commandment according to him. Jesus got at the real problem, people not loving each other as themselves. This also means forgiving people constantly, which is good for the individual and society. Judgment by the courts is warranted and paying damages for crimes is necessary but those never go far enough, do they? That’s right, ultimately forgiveness covers a multitude of sins. I’ve mentioned the incredible example of the Amish’ blanket forgivenss of the school shooter, extending that forgiveness to the entire family of the offendor. The MidEast could use a dose of this so we could all move on. Look how lack of love and bitterness has kept the entire world on edge there.

3) COMPULSION to DO GOOD - Jesus’ sermon about the Samaritan found on the road beaten compelled people to go the extra mile for others. In your atheistic, humanistic, evolutionist view, there is no compulsion to be good. Being good is a choice but there’s no real compulsion to do so. I believe atheists can do good things and be honorable but there’s no real unction for them to do so. What compels one to be good?

4) DETERMINING GOODNESS - Jesus’ grounds for goodness were based on a relationship with God, the only truly, eternal, objectively all-good Being. With the atheists, we know they can do good but what grounds their ethics? Does good actually exist for them in the first place. Eppur, you agree there is objective morality but on what is it based? How do you avoid relative morality? Is goodness merely calling what YOU like good? We have discussed abortion, which you disagree with, but with your musings and minimal ethical philosophy on your website to take a moral stand against it! You describe moral standards but have no way to prescribe for others, there being no real “bite” in your moral philosophy.

5) NATURALISTIC FALLACY - Darwinistic philosophy for the non-believer would point to letting the weak and starving die out and would encourage infanticide, eugenics, and euthenasia. But very few non-believers hold to this. Why do they go against a naturalistic tenet? Again, the problem is going from what they think life is, to what life should be (“is/ought”). It’s called the naturalistic fallacy. In short, atheists hang on to Christianity fo fill the gap and affirm worth of those who might be considered weak and undeserving of protection in a purely Darwinistic mode of thinking. Atheist Kai Nelson wrote, “pure, practical reason, even with good knowledge of the facts, will not take you to morality.” You might also say we evolved our morality, learning to cooperate with each other. But what makes us be good to each other in a naturalistic framework? Just because we evolved that way doesn’t necessarily mean we should do so.

6) ACTIVE, LIVABLE MORALITY - Christians live their morality, going to the ends of the earth to feed people, bring them medical attention, and technology to improve their way of life. The Havens and homeless shelters in my town are hosted by churches. We take in the "outcasts". Are atheists obliged to do the same? Yes, atheists do these things, too, but is it part of their belief system? The atheists know this is right but are they commanded to do it? There’s a difference. Christianity is a real force for change in the real world.

7) MORAL CONSTRUCT - Jesus pointed to his Father’s moral constructs but atheists point to morality constructed by and for man. Stalin, Hitler, Mao, Pol Pot and others have also done so with disastrous effect! Luckily, American founding fathers acknowledged a gov’t for the people and by the people, not a people enslaved to gov’t to serve the gov’t. How did they accomplish this? They cited “inalienable rights”(morals) from a “Creator”. They are eternal and individual rights and they can’t be removed by man. But if morality comes from man, it can be changed by man’s whim, majority opinion, brute force/bullying. Our human rights in this country are “self evident” only from a Christian viewpoint. Without God, whose morality do we follow? Who gets priority or has more credibility? Human taste and opinion is the LAST place we should turn for morality!

8) GROUNDS for MORALITY - Eppur, is religion morally wrong? If so, shouldn’t you eradicate it? But on what grounds do you call religion wrong and who made you the arbiter of morality? If we deny God as Moral Anchor, what grounds our morals? We merely decide on our own what is right or wrong and then prescribe that for all? The moral law, which you agree is objective, must then apply to all and be eternal. That only points to a good, eternal God, then.

9) JUDGING a PHILOSOPHY - If we judge a religion or system of thought by its consequences, then we can do the same with atheism/naturalism. The track record is pitiful! Stalin, Hitler, Mao, and Pol Pot all created deadly hells on earth that kept the entire world on edge. Throwing out God automatically tosses out moral restraint of leadership and human value. Theocracies have done the same, pursuing an agenda of church power, tossing out restraint and value of individuals. This is why Jesus talks of following God daily in prayer, not following your pastor, priest, Pope, mom, lawyer, teacher, gov't official, etc.

10) The PROBLEM of EVIL - The question of evil and the presence of evil only affirms objective moral law and value of humans. The worse the crime, the greater the amplification of the problem of evil. Evil intensifies the need for good and justice and we tend to ask, “Where was God?” The worse the evil, the more we look for justice and correction of the wrong done. The Sandy Hook shootings strike at everyone due to the insanity of the crime juxtaposed against the innocence of the young children. The need for justice and goodness intensifies, even if one does not believe in God. The naturalist has no answer as to the question of evil but the Bible easily explains it, ie fallen man, who needs a Savior, in a fallen world with a fallen army of deceiving creatures out to destroy man and God.

I applaud you for recognizing objective morality but the problem is your morality is humanistic, giving in to whim, majority opinion, breakable social contract, or bullying/brute force. How do you keep it from being so? Who decides moral limits ultimately? You must still define those moral absolutes and you have only scratched the surface with your PhilMusings and website.

Non-believers want a seat at the table of morality but don’t have the credentials to actually be there, their morality being whimsical or driven by relativistic man. Only Jesus meets the demands of human morality head-on. Evil, justice, mercy, forgiveness, and love all meet on the Cross. God chose that symbol intentionally to show us where we stand and to lead us to the answer. Christianity answers well the hard questions.

Eppur, your view of morality is “good enough” and “gets you by” but it falls short of Jesus’ mastery of the subject. Jesus’ view of humanity is also superior, assigning worth to the “worthless” and upholding a standard of “Egalitarian with people, elitist with ideas; not the other way around.” Why would I want to re-write or adopt your inferior moral view into Jesus’ superior view? Now, with all this in mind, back to the original post. Ultimately, with regard to this “marriage equality” topic, what makes you right and my God wrong?

PS: I repeated this on your PhilMusings.
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Gurudriver10 wrote:
It affects me when the media is saturated with homosexuality. It then affects me when my kids are sexualized at an early age in the schools, public schools teaching them that what God calls sin is okay.



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Gurudriver10 wrote:
PS: I repeated this on your PhilMusings.

I put my response there. It wrote it so well there that I don't feel any need to repeat it here. :)

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Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
Which is probably why I was registering 59.67mi as I rolled into T2.

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