I'm posting this here to get female help and I'm desperate. My wife hates my brother's wife. Without getting into why or analyzing the past, pointing fingers and what-not, I need some tips to improve this relationship without looking obvious. I'm going to seek professional help on this as well. I could write a book on this crap telling every detail of the story but I want to look forward and not analyze the past (if thats possible).
Anyway, we both have young kids and long story short my wife called the preschool our 3 year old daughter was going to go to this fall and made sure my brother's daughter wasnt in the class (they signed her up to be with my daughter and my wife's sister's daughter--3 cousins all together, females 3 yrs old). If my brother and his wife find out about this deliberate low-blow, our future family gatherings will suck beyond comprehension. They are already tenous.
Has anyone encountered this type of situation and how did you deal with it?
Anyway, we both have young kids and long story short my wife called the preschool our 3 year old daughter was going to go to this fall and made sure my brother's daughter wasnt in the class (they signed her up to be with my daughter and my wife's sister's daughter--3 cousins all together, females 3 yrs old). If my brother and his wife find out about this deliberate low-blow, our future family gatherings will suck beyond comprehension. They are already tenous.
Has anyone encountered this type of situation and how did you deal with it?