Hi ladies,
I was riding on a local group ride that does a mellow roll-out, and then does a ~45min "race" climb and regroups at the top. It's mostly men, a few women sometimes show up. A few weeks ago I was about 2/3 up the climb, and the guy next to me says, "you know, you could be a really good climber if you lost ten pounds."
Now, I realize this is in a twisted way, some sort of compliment...BUT, I didn't know the guy at all, and I was the only woman riding in this sub-group.
It doesn't end there- he then proceeds to ask me, "What do you eat?" I reply, "I don't know...normal food?" and he eggs me on "I bet you have a sweet tooth huh...." with a grin. I said flatly, "I sure do eat desserts." And this guy offers me some advice, "Well, what I do is keep a bowl of raisins near me at work, so when I get an urge to eat crap I just have a handful of raisins, this does the trick."
I wish I could say I had a great comeback and then proceeded to drop him...but I was shell-shocked and later realized how inappropriate this was. If it had been a close girlfriend or a coach it might be a different story. Regardless, the next time I go on this ride, I want to say something to him. Should I? And if so, what should I even say!? Thanks!
I was riding on a local group ride that does a mellow roll-out, and then does a ~45min "race" climb and regroups at the top. It's mostly men, a few women sometimes show up. A few weeks ago I was about 2/3 up the climb, and the guy next to me says, "you know, you could be a really good climber if you lost ten pounds."
Now, I realize this is in a twisted way, some sort of compliment...BUT, I didn't know the guy at all, and I was the only woman riding in this sub-group.
It doesn't end there- he then proceeds to ask me, "What do you eat?" I reply, "I don't know...normal food?" and he eggs me on "I bet you have a sweet tooth huh...." with a grin. I said flatly, "I sure do eat desserts." And this guy offers me some advice, "Well, what I do is keep a bowl of raisins near me at work, so when I get an urge to eat crap I just have a handful of raisins, this does the trick."
I wish I could say I had a great comeback and then proceeded to drop him...but I was shell-shocked and later realized how inappropriate this was. If it had been a close girlfriend or a coach it might be a different story. Regardless, the next time I go on this ride, I want to say something to him. Should I? And if so, what should I even say!? Thanks!