I have taught for 5 years now, and every year has included a teenager death as the result of a car accident. All of the previous ones have involved underage drinking, and crazy driving.
This year/weekend, a car full of 5 kids on their way back from out-of-town guitar lessons, swerved to avoid a deer, rolled their car three times, and the one kid that was not wearing a seat belt was killed. My 16yo nephew was the driver. He tried to administer CPR, but not successfully.
I'm home this morning (off for 1/2day), as I am heading to the funeral right now. Each time a young person is lost, it is tough, and you're left disappointed that they paid so high a price for a mistake. This time, it's going to be really tough b/c I knew the kid as a teacher, and away from school (one of my nephew's friends). I can't imagine what my nephew is feeling or is going to feel as he goes through life, reflecting on the situation that he was driving the car, that got into an accident that killed one of his friends. What can I possibly say to him?
Anyway, this week the other kids in the car have seemed okay at school, almost as if they don't realize what happened. That will be different today. Today is the day of the funeral, of finality. They'll all know by the end of today what really happened and what it means. This is going to be a tough day.
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-- Every morning brings opportunity;
Each evening offers judgement. --
This year/weekend, a car full of 5 kids on their way back from out-of-town guitar lessons, swerved to avoid a deer, rolled their car three times, and the one kid that was not wearing a seat belt was killed. My 16yo nephew was the driver. He tried to administer CPR, but not successfully.
I'm home this morning (off for 1/2day), as I am heading to the funeral right now. Each time a young person is lost, it is tough, and you're left disappointed that they paid so high a price for a mistake. This time, it's going to be really tough b/c I knew the kid as a teacher, and away from school (one of my nephew's friends). I can't imagine what my nephew is feeling or is going to feel as he goes through life, reflecting on the situation that he was driving the car, that got into an accident that killed one of his friends. What can I possibly say to him?
Anyway, this week the other kids in the car have seemed okay at school, almost as if they don't realize what happened. That will be different today. Today is the day of the funeral, of finality. They'll all know by the end of today what really happened and what it means. This is going to be a tough day.
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-- Every morning brings opportunity;
Each evening offers judgement. --