My older daughter moved to college three weeks ago and started school two weeks ago. She's in the dorms in a 'suite' with a roomie, a shared bathroom with two other girls on the other side. One of the suite mates decided to leave the school and move back home for a bunch of personal reasons. My daughter and the other suite mates tried to talk her into staying but to no avail. This girls mom arrived today to help her daughter gather her belongings and move back home. At some point, the mom felt nauseous and went into the bathroom - the girls realized it had been a bit of time and started knocking, then kicked in the door. The mom is on the floor dead. They tried CPR, called 911 but she died. This was a few hours ago.
The school locked down the entire floor, everyone out, sequestered the daughter and had police investigators onsite. They finally let the daughter out of the police interview and my daughter and suite mates are with her now. My daughter texted me just now saying they're bringing the body out now.
No idea what happened but the daughter thinks it's her fault for the stress; the suite mates (and my kid) are totally freaked out, consoling their friend, and afraid to even enter their dorm room again.
All I can tell my kid is be there with your friend and focus on her - we will sort out the rest later. I'm hoping the school provides support to all involved.
Damn.
The school locked down the entire floor, everyone out, sequestered the daughter and had police investigators onsite. They finally let the daughter out of the police interview and my daughter and suite mates are with her now. My daughter texted me just now saying they're bringing the body out now.
No idea what happened but the daughter thinks it's her fault for the stress; the suite mates (and my kid) are totally freaked out, consoling their friend, and afraid to even enter their dorm room again.
All I can tell my kid is be there with your friend and focus on her - we will sort out the rest later. I'm hoping the school provides support to all involved.
Damn.