Take this for what it is worth. I don't have kids but I went to school a lot and have double digit nieces and nephews that have gone to school.
It always seems to me that kids do better in school and make better decisions about what to study if they have skin in the game. The kids that have everything paid for don't seem to be near as intent on making sure they aren't flushing money and it seems on average better choices of major are made if the kid at least thinks they are paying for it.
I don't think it is unreasonable to work during the school year, but not to the extent my wife and I both did. 10+/- hours a week aren't going to hurt anyone. When you are trying juggle FT school and near full time it can be tough though.
If you want to pay for it all, fine. But at least make them think that you are not. Only let them know you are paying for it all after the fact. Even if that means taking out unsubsidized loans and running some interest.
IMHO, children should not live at home after high school. Dorms are a pretty good transition from living at home to living completely on your own. Getting out and making decisions while still being able to get help is an important step in life.
I'm beginning to think that we are much more fucked than I thought.
It always seems to me that kids do better in school and make better decisions about what to study if they have skin in the game. The kids that have everything paid for don't seem to be near as intent on making sure they aren't flushing money and it seems on average better choices of major are made if the kid at least thinks they are paying for it.
I don't think it is unreasonable to work during the school year, but not to the extent my wife and I both did. 10+/- hours a week aren't going to hurt anyone. When you are trying juggle FT school and near full time it can be tough though.
If you want to pay for it all, fine. But at least make them think that you are not. Only let them know you are paying for it all after the fact. Even if that means taking out unsubsidized loans and running some interest.
IMHO, children should not live at home after high school. Dorms are a pretty good transition from living at home to living completely on your own. Getting out and making decisions while still being able to get help is an important step in life.
I'm beginning to think that we are much more fucked than I thought.