That is some serious stuff. My wife works for a criminal defense attorney. She sees dumb kids ruin their lives with that stuff all the time. Don't even get her started on kids sexting each other and getting charged with kiddie porn.

The stupid wild card in all this is his dad and stepmom. The stepmom is also dangerously crazy and loves the idea of the kids being together. So when he goes and sees his dad on the weekend his stepmom goes and picks the girl up for the weekend. That is weekends 50 miles away from his mom with two psychos telling him that the love is pure and blessed by Jesus. HIs dad is dumber than even me so he just goes along with it. Any body got a match? This crazy bomb is ready to blow!

I think the best thing to do is act dumb (should be easy) and ask questions like "what do you like about her?" "What are you getting out of the relationship?" You could try saying something like your Mom is really concerned about your GF why do you think that is?

Has the Mom sat down and discussed her concerns and asked what his thoughts are in response to those concerns?

Many a talk has been had. The facts have been laid out bear. No stone unturned. It is all deflected with the ever popular, "It's true love." and "You don't understand."

Tell him not to have unprotected sex.

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I gave him 5 boxes of condoms in many varieties. I explained in clear and graphic language the many types of STDs and how children in your early adulthood destroys your life. Seeing how is behaving and hearing how he talks with his "wife" I see a baby in a year.