Spiridon Louis wrote:
aarondb4 wrote:
Spiridon Louis wrote:
You need to marry someone who's hot to you; likes to fuck you as much as you like to fuck her; seems smart and funny to you; is forgiving of your faults and has faults that you can forgive; and who agrees with you and with whom you agree on major issues like money management, how to raise kids, where to live, and who is going to make the money. It'd be nice if you shared some interests too, but if not you need to be able to support hers and she yours. All that's not easy to accomplish. But if you do it's fricking awesome!
Does your mutual interest involve riding unicorns along the beach?
Ha, yep. That was kinda my point. It's about that hard to find and I think most people don't.
The problem is most people suck, whether they are married or single. Put two sucky people together and no one has fun.
Marriage is easy. Only two things to worry about. First, pick the right person. Second, don't be a dick.
A lot of people aren't able to pick the right person because they aren't worthy of the right person. If you can't get the right one, stay single, any marriage will end up sucking.
We have been together 30 years. Life is good. Any disagreements we have ever had have been because I was being a dick.
I'm beginning to think that we are much more fucked than I thought.