Me, DH and our two kids are going to Disney. We're staying in a condo that's basically 2 apartments (we paid for it). So we invited the two grandmothers. We thought this would be a good idea.
Then DH's grandmother invited both of my BILs. So we put our foot down about that. Then both grandmothers mentioned that there's people in Florida that they want to see when they're there. We're like fine but we're taking the kids to the parks and don't be demanding that we have to go meet family. And we're not working our schedules around you. Fine.
Until today. My mom is almost 80 years old and has chronic back pain. That's not going to change and she refuses to accept this (which she shouldn't) and does all these kooky homeopathic remedies (eating purple rice and eating turmeric). But now she's researching stem cell therapy and she doesn't want to go to the guy who does it locally. However, there's a person who does it an hour away from Orlando and she told me that she'll, "just get it done when we're down there."
No. No. No. It's supposed to be a family vacation. We thought it would be a nice thing to do for them and all of us to spend time together. We didn't expect them to come to the parks with us and they had the freedom to roam. But I'm not about to deal with taking my mom to medical appoints and whatever recovery is necessary.
We're starting to feel like inviting them was a really bad idea.
Then DH's grandmother invited both of my BILs. So we put our foot down about that. Then both grandmothers mentioned that there's people in Florida that they want to see when they're there. We're like fine but we're taking the kids to the parks and don't be demanding that we have to go meet family. And we're not working our schedules around you. Fine.
Until today. My mom is almost 80 years old and has chronic back pain. That's not going to change and she refuses to accept this (which she shouldn't) and does all these kooky homeopathic remedies (eating purple rice and eating turmeric). But now she's researching stem cell therapy and she doesn't want to go to the guy who does it locally. However, there's a person who does it an hour away from Orlando and she told me that she'll, "just get it done when we're down there."
No. No. No. It's supposed to be a family vacation. We thought it would be a nice thing to do for them and all of us to spend time together. We didn't expect them to come to the parks with us and they had the freedom to roam. But I'm not about to deal with taking my mom to medical appoints and whatever recovery is necessary.
We're starting to feel like inviting them was a really bad idea.