Don't over think it.

Best advice I've ever received: Never fuck with someone else's happiness.

Or, you can use my what my grandfather used to say when we were bitchin':

Us: "Bitch, bitch, blah, blah, whatever... "

Papa: "Where's the end of your nose? Point to it!" (Would wait until we put our finger to the tip of our nose...)

Papa: "Thats where your business stops."


Papa was a helluva man. I miss him a lot.

- Jeff

I knew a transgender F to M. She was a nurse and kept her job after the operation while changing her name from Francine to Francois which was a bit strange for her co-workers. She then married her lesbian lover and has been living as man and wife.