rubik wrote:
Ai_1 wrote:
rubik wrote:
140.6sj wrote:
What did people do before cell phones? Its like the parents who claim their kids need phones in school so they can get ahold of them. I could be wrong, but back before cell phones, you would call the office and they find you.
A bit off-topic, but with some of the grievous incidents that have happened in schools in this country in the last decade... suffice to say there are times when the office simply can't do anything and the importance of being in direct contact with your child cannot be understated.
I'm not sure said incidents were as prevalent in the past...
You know what I said earlier about people being bad at evaluating risk?
I know the US has a huge problem with firearms in schools, but how high is the risk, really?
You have made some silly leaps and posted a whole bunch of totally irrelevant stuff.
Parents being able to communicate with their children goes beyond firearms in schools. Knowledge of safety is a massive component that you seem to be ignoring, and there are all sorts of scenarios ranging from weather issues to bus and bus stop issues to even being back home that may warrant that ability to communicate. Not to mention the ability to record should a situation present itself in which no immediate communication would help.
Yes, 100% things are more dangerous and that danger takes on a myriad of new and unprecedented forms which are left to the parent to ascertain and evaluate for potential impact.
I have a daughter who is a freshman in college, and another daughter who is in 8th grade. I have never, ever, needed to call either of them during school (for most of those years, they didn't have a cell phone).
There has never, ever, been a safety-related reason for them to call me. The only reason I've ever been called by them during school was when they forgot to bring something in. If they aren't feeling well, they go to the nurse. There's *nothing* I can do that the school can't do better, and faster.
Amazingly, schools have set up mechanisms for communicating with parents: the Main Office. Whenever there is a situation like a lockdown, they communicate with parents in multiple ways. As far as "left to the parent": despite being told to stay away during one such occurrence, parents showed up in droves.
Stop living in fear. School is about the safest place for kids to be.
(edit: my wife is a teacher)
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