This is one of the stupidest statements I've heard on here. People can only be wrong and hurtful if they intend to be wrong and hurtful is the inference of this. That's asinine. There's really no point in addressing anything further with you. As is typical with your dialogue here, you're so busy never being wrong in your own mind that you miss it when you might not be entirely right.
vitus979 wrote:
Seriously, while you're lecturing me about putting myself in someone else's shoes, maybe you want to take a minute and engage in some self-reflection of your own. Just because you found it indescribably hurtful when people mentioned your adopted dad doesn't mean they meant any offense, or that you really had any real business being hurt by it. Maybe that's more your issue than theirs.