BLeP wrote:
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Yes, but then why do you feel the need to search yourself? It really does come down to this.
That's a great question, and probably best to ask, rather than assume to know the reason. She never asked, even in the rhetorical sense. We went from zero to "you must think I'm an idiot" without pause. That's a bit of an overreaction, I think. It forgets what she knows about me, and presumes to know something unsaid that's entirely untrue.
Yes, but you are forgetting that she's a woman.
I like to think that my wife is fairly low on the crazy scale, yet if I leave something on the floor her reaction is "I can only assume that you expect me to clean up after you".
Whereas the truth is that I am simply lazy and figured I'd pick it up later.
This is so true! Just a day or two ago my wife complained "Why is this role of paper towels on the floor?" I had the perfect (true) response: "I was using it to clean up the cat barf on the carpet!".
I could see the slight pause as she processed that and realized this was not behavior she wanted to discourage.
Still, after a moment she just had to say "Well, most people would have picked it up after they were finished".