Madduck wrote:
wasn't/isn't there a dutch(?) guy on here who said he didn't realize how racism in the US was blown out of proportion until he came here. he said it's worse wherever he was from and gave an example of some Christmas character from his county who was depicted in black face. or something along those lines.
That may have been me - I vaguely remember ranting about Black Peter a couple of years back.
There's an annoying habit in Dutch culture that everything "moet kunnen" - literally "should be possible/allowed". And that as long as you don't physically hurt anybody you can say or do anything. "Physically hurt" is defined loosely - in my opinion the absolute mayhem caused by fireworks around new years is hurting people with PTSD and noise sensitivities for example, but still those fireworks "moeten kunnen".
A lot of insidious racism is justified the same way: by claiming humorous intent, or "tradition", or thin-skinnedness by the offended minority. Or all of these together.
It's beyond annoying, and present under otherwise intelligent people as well. And while the (especially US) SJW narrative sometimes loses touch with reality, I currently prefer living in North-America (Canada) over the Netherlands, mainly for this reason. I've come to consider the Dutch to be impolite and inconsiderate.
(Aside: We currently have my in-laws over. My mother-in-law was born and spend her youth in colonial Africa, and her husband made his career in newly independent Africa where the ghosts of the English and French administrators were still very much present. One reason they are here is because we rolled a number of family festivities into a big vacation to Barbados, which reminded them of the colonial Africa of their past. It became perfectly clear that my MIL especially has zero understanding of slavery ("why do the blacks here all have English and not African names?") and colonial oppression, and that she liked the nice neat colonial architecture of the rich people resorts much better that the admittedly somewhat random and messy places inhabited by the locals, coming very close to implying that colonial rule was actually preferable. It annoyed me to no end. I'm never going to a place like that with them ever again)
Citizen of the world, former drunkard. Resident Traumatic Brain Injury advocate.