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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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Matt - it's an Internet forum, probably one if the best places you can discuss....did you not see my last comment - be honest because the majority of you hide behind a screen name anyway. If you can't discuses with your SO or friends, there really isn't a better place to be open about it.



I simply don't understand this viewpoint. It's part of what is, in my opinion, dragging our society in the wrong direction. Don't get me wrong, it makes for entertaining LR threads, but since when is there " no better place" to discuss your personal sexual proclivities and fetishes, than in a public internet forum with people you don't know, in a completely unprotected manner? 50 years ago, before the internet, would anyone have had these discussions in public with random strangers? Of course not. So why does the fact that these strangers communicate on the internet make it different? It's still completely open to the public, maybe even more so than before message boards and forums existed.

If you can't discuss with your SO, then you probably need therapy or a different SO. If you're discussing with friends, then you have a somewhat weird relationship with your friends, in my opinion. Clearly women talk about different things than men, but even so,...

Well said.
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [Allie] [ In reply to ]
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Since there is a single family computer at our house, I'm tired of this particular title being at the top of the LR....
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [oldandslow] [ In reply to ]
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Time to buy a second computer. :-)
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [jharris] [ In reply to ]
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I though a fetish was described as something someone finds sexual when it would normally be non-sexual. Otherwise, I think we are talking about sexual preferences.


Been reading the thread and thinking the same thing. Fetish is usually more defined as something not sexual being sexual in this persons mind. Like someone who will only get off of they pretend to be a pony or has to have sex with someone in a bear suit. (should I have used gorilla here?). sometimes thinking its hot if your partner pees on you is more a kink, it is something you bring in to enhance the experience but not necessarily defining the whole thing.

No real fetishes although lately I have a thing for women in long sleeve running shirts with those thumb holes, just seeing a hand in one is kind of a turn on even if I normally would not be attracted to the person wearing it.

Limits? Going to reiterate the no poop no kids other than that I'll try pretty much anything. My main kink we'll call it but also is more then sex is that I consider myself poly and have been in poly relationships.
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [kmh1225] [ In reply to ]
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kmh1225 wrote:
Do you have any....if so, what are they?

Are you open about these fetishes with your partner/spouse/SO?

Have you ever gone else where to have your sexual fetish fantasies fulfilled, because your SO refused?

Personally, I don't have any out of the norm, but I'm always willing to help someone explore.

On more than one occasion, I have been approached by men with foot fetishes who have offered to pay me money to worship my feet, just look, touch and have me walk around in shoes. I've never done it but thought it would be an interesting experiment.

I've dated men who like to be treated like my slave and that was very fun. I could definitely get into the Mistress/Domina thing on a regular basis. So maybe that's my "fetish", however I don't seek it out.

Just be honest, most of you hide behind a screen name anyway ;-)

If it become public knowledge that X likes being treated like a slave in the bedroom, does that then subject him to public ridicule such as someone who humorously speaks about the black ministrels?

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [sdbanker] [ In reply to ]
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sdbanker wrote:
You must not have gotten the Cheers reference.

Yes Idid. " You need a new Norm."

I'm beginning to think that we are much more fucked than I thought.
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [kmh1225] [ In reply to ]
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kmh1225 wrote:
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Eating pussy. I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body (and a pretty good one for what it's worth).
It's interesting how every guy says they are good at this (I'm not saying you're not!) you can be sitting at a table of 100 men and everyone will say "I'm the best"
Let's turn the tables
Do women tell men they are the best at sucking dick? Myself for instance, I would never claim to be the best, however I emphasis how much I LOOOOOVE to do it and it actually tuns me on, a lot. I can go to town FOREVER...I an never seem to get enough. So when the question about oral comes up with women do you men get a similar response? Or do women offer up how they are THE BEST?



Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

- Chinese proverb
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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No claws out so it looks like she is enjoying it to me.
Last edited by: sdbanker: Dec 23, 13 19:12
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [sdbanker] [ In reply to ]
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The creator of that meme got it wrong. That cat was checking out the dude's insides, and the guy was trying to get the cat out. Not vice versa.

Slowguy

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [veganerd] [ In reply to ]
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AsMx8cHGC-4

maybe she's born with it, maybe it's chlorine
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [tigerchik] [ In reply to ]
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tigerchik wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AsMx8cHGC-4

You know me so well!


In related news, my son was singing "white wine in the sun" while playing with his new toys today haha

who's smarter than you're? i'm!
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [tigerchik] [ In reply to ]
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TC, how did you find out about Tim Minchin? Unexpected from you...

Brad

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [hillier99] [ In reply to ]
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My younger brother found his music a couple years ago. I actually think he's fantastic - good pianist, smart lyrics. If he weren't married, I'd propose.

maybe she's born with it, maybe it's chlorine
If you're injured and need some sympathy, PM me and I'm very happy to write back.
disclaimer: PhD not MD
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [tigerchik] [ In reply to ]
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He is very talented and smart. Big fan...

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [hillier99] [ In reply to ]
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what the heck? Thread from 2013 pops out of no where ?

They constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within
Dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good T.S. Eliot

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [len] [ In reply to ]
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len wrote:
what the heck? Thread from 2013 pops out of no where ?

Porn purveyor spammed the thread and was deleted.

Somebody should tell Kira had thread came back to life, she would really like the attention.

I'm beginning to think that we are much more fucked than I thought.
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [j p o] [ In reply to ]
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The email notification sort of freaked me out... "There was a reply to your post - sexual fetish".

An a positive note, my last post in the thread reminded me to YouTube Tim Minchin "White wine in the sun". An atypical Christmas song. My fave.

Brad

3SIXTY5cycling.com
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [kmh1225] [ In reply to ]
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kmh1225 wrote:
Do you have any....if so, what are they?

Are you open about these fetishes with your partner/spouse/SO?

Have you ever gone else where to have your sexual fetish fantasies fulfilled, because your SO refused?

Personally, I don't have any out of the norm, but I'm always willing to help someone explore.

On more than one occasion, I have been approached by men with foot fetishes who have offered to pay me money to worship my feet, just look, touch and have me walk around in shoes. I've never done it but thought it would be an interesting experiment.

I've dated men who like to be treated like my slave and that was very fun. I could definitely get into the Mistress/Domina thing on a regular basis. So maybe that's my "fetish", however I don't seek it out.

Just be honest, most of you hide behind a screen name anyway ;-)

I heard about this thing called Shibari?

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [oldandslow] [ In reply to ]
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Since there is a single family computer at our house, I'm tired of this particular title being at the top of the LR....

Why's that?

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [kmh1225] [ In reply to ]
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kmh1225 wrote:
I have a question for all you men. I once dated a guy who put a condom on before he would jack off...he said it was less messy. Is this actually a common practice? I dated another guy who would only masturbate in the shower, basically the same reason, less messy and obvious easy clean up. I thought it was odd too, but maybe. Is this more normal than I realize? OR am I just dating fruitcakes?

This got me to thinking and I was wondering, if they also felt the need to clean up right after sex?

What say the others here, clean up immediately or cuddle in the warmth? I'll go first, cuddling, rest, repeat, if possible,,,,, I'm old ya know.

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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [CruseVegas] [ In reply to ]
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kmh1225 wrote:
I have a question for all you men. I once dated a guy who put a condom on before he would jack off...he said it was less messy. Is this actually a common practice? I dated another guy who would only masturbate in the shower, basically the same reason, less messy and obvious easy clean up. I thought it was odd too, but maybe. Is this more normal than I realize? OR am I just dating fruitcakes?


This got me to thinking and I was wondering, if they also felt the need to clean up right after sex?

What say the others here, clean up immediately or cuddle in the warmth? I'll go first, cuddling, rest, repeat, if possible,,,,, I'm old ya know.

Makes sense, you;re just happy to have had a successful launch at this point! ;)

\Merry Christmas Jim and Happy New Year
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Re: What is your Sexual Fetish? [ChrisM] [ In reply to ]
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ChrisM wrote:
CruseVegas wrote:
kmh1225 wrote:
I have a question for all you men. I once dated a guy who put a condom on before he would jack off...he said it was less messy. Is this actually a common practice? I dated another guy who would only masturbate in the shower, basically the same reason, less messy and obvious easy clean up. I thought it was odd too, but maybe. Is this more normal than I realize? OR am I just dating fruitcakes?


This got me to thinking and I was wondering, if they also felt the need to clean up right after sex?

What say the others here, clean up immediately or cuddle in the warmth? I'll go first, cuddling, rest, repeat, if possible,,,,, I'm old ya know.


Makes sense, you;re just happy to have had a successful launch at this point! ;)

\Merry Christmas Jim and Happy New Year

I know right!!! At my age, I was struggling to remember what I did, way back then. ) Oh, one thing I failed to mention, don't forget to untie them, if it's called for,,,,, just sayin.

Merry Christmas and Happy Newd Year to you and yours Chris.

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