slowguy wrote:
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Matt - it's an Internet forum, probably one if the best places you can discuss....did you not see my last comment - be honest because the majority of you hide behind a screen name anyway. If you can't discuses with your SO or friends, there really isn't a better place to be open about it. I simply don't understand this viewpoint. It's part of what is, in my opinion, dragging our society in the wrong direction. Don't get me wrong, it makes for entertaining LR threads, but since when is there " no better place" to discuss your personal sexual proclivities and fetishes, than in a public internet forum with people you don't know, in a completely unprotected manner? 50 years ago, before the internet, would anyone have had these discussions in public with random strangers? Of course not. So why does the fact that these strangers communicate on the internet make it different? It's still completely open to the public, maybe even more so than before message boards and forums existed.
If you can't discuss with your SO, then you probably need therapy or a different SO. If you're discussing with friends, then you have a somewhat weird relationship with your friends, in my opinion. Clearly women talk about different things than men, but even so,...
Well said.