I'm not saying your in over your head, it's just to do it "right" it takes the right equipment, and as I said, at that cost, you can have it repaired.
All of that aside, here's my experiences from doing little CF projects and "repairing" a bike for my friend that he planned on keeping in another state to ride once every few years, so he just wanted it fixed, for cheap, and didn't care how it looked.
I used way more carbon than a professional company would, for the simple fact I wanted it to be strong and he didn't care how it turned out, it was really so I could see how hard frame repairs are in case I ever wanted to do it later on to a nicer bike (I kind of expected to destroy my CF MTB the first year I had it).
From what I know, the professionals cut/sand away or completely remove the damaged sections. How they decide to do one or the other I'm not sure, but if you look at all of the frame repair website photos you will see both methods used. For example my friend (same friend but different frame) had his frame repaired and the company completely cut out his damaged chain stay, then replaced it with a good chainstay from another damaged frame that was identical. I've seen others where they cut out all of the cracked material then sand it down so the patch will blend in. I'd guess you don't have sections to replace with a new frame so you'll have to do the cut away method. You don't want any sharp corners or square edges in your cuts, you'll want the cut to be oval/round shaped and you need to make sure you get all of the cracked/damaged area or the crack can spread out.
Depending on how much you cut away, you may need a core material or the carbon will collapse into the frame. You could shoot some spray foam into it, then sand it down to the shape of the frame. It won't add much weight but may absorb some resin which could add a little weight, but then this is a DIY job so I doubt your too worried about that.
Lay it up. I have no good advice here, just speculation. I overkilled the seat tube and wrapped the whole thing. he wanted it strong not pretty, but if I were to do it over, and had to repair a chain stay I'd probably put a layer of uni in 4 different directions in as many plys as they used then 1 top ply of 3 or 6k (whatever matches the original). A down tube wouldn't need as much (as you mentioned), and probably woudn't need 4 directions either, 2 is likely the norm, but I'm guessing here.
Also theres a video that shows you how to build up your own "pre-preg". Its essentially all your CF sandwiched between two sheets of over head projector plastic, so you can spread the resin evenly between them all, then you cut that out using a razor and you have the exact shape you want, in the layup you want with the resin already applies. Only problem would be having that lay evenly on the frame, so maybe do a few layers out a time getting bigger with each layup so once it's all sanded it blends in better.
Now, electrical tape works, but it's not the same as vacuum bagging. It doesn't get as tight, as even, and you will definitely be sanding ridges out of the top carbon layer when you are through.
If you need a good source for resin and CF I'd go to Soller Composites, and also call and talk to the owner, he's very knowledgable and will probably be a lot more help.
http://www.solarcomposites.com If you have any other questions feel free to send me a PM.