Nostalgia.

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Slowguy

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Concur. Either nostalgia for my own childhood, or times spent at Disneyland/California Adventure with my wife and daughter. Nothing but great memories.

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I don't get it either.

While wife and I were living in Florida, we went to Universal Studios with a couple we are friends with. The mother of the woman in the couple had died the year before after a long, difficult illness (cancer). While sick, the mother had gotten hooked on the Harry Potter books and became a superfan, and traveled to Universal Studios to go to Harry Potter world as one of her last trips she could do while relatively healthy. Woman in the couple wanted to go see it herself, as part of some sort of understanding/closure process around her mother's death. I kind of, sort of, understood that, but it was a very specific one-off explanation.

Unrelated story: I used to work at a med device company in Florida. Chief Science Officer was a blunt, outspoken Englishwoman who was the daughter of a career English Army officer and had the regimented no-nonsense demeanor to go with it. She used to spend many weekends and holidays working informational kiosks and the like at Disney, just because she loved it there. I never understood it and thought it was really counter-intuitive given her dragonlady persona at a serious company, with products whose success depended on her and her team being all business.

We live in Southern California, grew up going there. Wife wanted to go for her birthday a couple years back, I'd have to say it was fun, more fun in California Adventure where they sell alcohol and the rides are better :) But at Disneyland all the classic rides are still fun to do once. Pirates, Space Mountain, Haunted Mansion etc. Brings back good memories

That said, it's like Vegas for us. One day every 5 years (or more) is good enough.

I know an adult couple without kids, who love it there: "everything is so clean".
They even took their honeymoon there.

You can do like my dad and ask Princess Ariel if she wants to go fishing sometime. He also hit on Tinkerbell, Cinderella, Snow White, Jasmine, Elsa, and Anna.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2018/03/06/travel/disney-springs-florida-restaurants.html




Timely article in the New York Times from 3 days ago. I took my children to Disney when they were 7 and 10. None of us had been and we will never go back. There was also an article about a Disney cruise - another circle of hell that I don't understand. Maybe I'm just grumpy.

brain damage.

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I've been to Disney a ton. As adults, with grown kids, we do it way differently than what you're likely picturing. We stay in a nice resort and a typical day look something like this. Wake up and go for a run, hang out by the pool, grab lunch, hit some tennis balls, head somewhere nice for dinner (there are a ton of great restaurants), wander into a park to see some fireworks and watch people. Mix in some shopping with the missus. If I'm there 4 days I might ride 4 rides. Won't wait in line more than 15 minutes for anything. There are non-Disney places in Orlando we like to go too. We're pretty low-key on the Disney part of Disney.

I totally get not getting it though. It's a different world.

At its core Disney is an amusement park right ? Adults go for the rides ! It’s got to be better without kids dragging you down.

Or as someone else said , to hit on the characters.

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It’s more than that. There is a couple I know who never went as kids. They go every year. Half the time without their kids.

I refuse to ask them about it as they are weird.

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My folks never took us as kids. We couldn't afford it. Now that their children have all grown up, they got themselves a Disney Credit Card. Earn points toward your Disney Vacation with every purchase you make. It was their first real vacation after dad retired.

Translation: Don't go with your kids, go as adults to see what you've would have let them enjoy just so that you can tell them about it.

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I don't get it either...but my sister is another story. She went there for her honeymoon and a few times before her kids were born. She and her husband take the kids to Disney and I have no doubt she'll continue to go after they move out.

I don’t understand the draw WITH kids. My kids grew up within 45 minutes of Disneyland and they’ve been exactly twice.

I don’t get the amusement of amusement parks at all. The only one I think is worthy is Legoland and you can knock it out in 4 hours and be gone.

Well sure, there are weirdos. But for most adults, I think nostalgia is probably the thing.

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Wife's office mate and hubby are huge Disney fans, still go as just a couple after kids have grown up and moved out. I totally don't get it either (other than they're Trump fans, so clearly not very bright is my standby explanatory dig).

My folks took us once when my brothers and I were kids and I certainly remember it fondly, but when it came time for my wife's & my turn to take a vacation in SoCal when our kids were slightly older, we quickly figured out that Magic Mountain had more/better rides AND cost less (by a lot, it turns out ~ A, base Disney ticket cost more; B, they had little or no coupons or specials, etc, while MM had a whole bunch of different discount packages which we ended up using to include my folks on a senior family pass, plus parking included; and C, the age cut-off for full price was younger at Disney so we'd be charged for 3 adults & 1 kid vs 2 & 2). I'd 90% made up my mind on that already, but just to give the kids some say I asked them whether they were more interested in riding rides all day vs watching college students do shows dressed up in Mickey Mouse costumes, and they said they'd rather do more rides so that settled it.

https://www.orlandoweekly.com/Blogs/archives/2018/01/23/disney-will-give-125000-workers-cash-bonuses-but-orlando-unions-want-pay-raise


Disney got a 2 billion dollar tax break from Trump but pays poverty wages.

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I won't! Because, come Saturday night, about two hours into the first of four days, I will survey the park and decree "I'm done!" (with kids). I may even start a thread about it too.

I thought this was going to be a thread about an alternative, adult themed amusement park.

I'm so very, very disappointed.

What bit don’t you get? Is it the concept that adults may want to go on rides and not have to worry about kids with short attention spans and/or small bladders?

I could understand adults with fairly mundane lives wanting to shock their system a bit. As a parent I could certainly appreciate not having to stress about kids complaining, being hungry etc.

I also can see the nostalgia angle.

If it’s being around Disney themed things then I understand less.

The Dopey challenge(bucket list item for me) & the Wine&Dine run. Aside from that, I don't really know what the magical appeal is either.

My parents love Disney. Not just the parks but any Mickey Mouse crap. Their house is covered in Disney pictures, figurines, etc. They are also part of the Disney Vacation Club (timeshare program). I think we did so much Disney crap so often growing up that I have not just come to dis-like Disney, but pretty much become anti-Disney. Spoke to my brothers last week, they feel 100% the same way.

Problem is my parents moved to FL and are now two hours from Disney. So every winter we go to visit them, where do they have to take our kids? Freaking Disney World.

So no, I can't sell you on it, it is the worlds biggest tourist trap. You want to go to the park and buy shitty fast food lunch for your family of four....$50 bucks.

The only positive side was taking my 4 year old to get a picture with Pocahontas (no not Elizabeth Warren), the look on her face when she got to meet her was priceless. She wanted to see Ariel but I guess we went to the wrong park.

Disney might have appeal for adults too.

1. 10yrs ago Mrs RG went to some conference at Disney World (Orlando, FL). It's about 5hrs S of us. She came back very impressed. She said that there were whole sections of Disney World oriented on adults, and that the Disney staff had their act together like she'd never seen before. Not just in the context of customer service, but just being super organized and efficient. The story she related was that she was in some kind of bus moving from one part of the park to another. Bus got involved in some no-account fender bender. Within seconds security was on site conducting brief interviews with everyone that was near the incident. It was like every element of Disney was a well-practiced machine that could spin into action at a moment's notice.

Upon her arrival home, Mrs RG bought some Disney stock.

2. Coworker is a runner, marathons and ultras. Got married a couple months ago to another runner. They honeymooned at Disney World doing some kind of "race every day" sort of thing that Disney does. A little hard for me to imagine honeymooning at Disney, but they apparently had a great time.

3. Personally, I've only been to Disney World once. We took the 3 boys when they were early grade-school age. Was a lot of walking around and standing in lines under the hot sun. The big hit for the whole trip was that the hotel served pizza at the pool. We could have just stayed at the hotel pool and saved $1k worth of Disney passes.

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Our condo is about 45 minutes from Disney. Sometimes me and my wife will go there and do "monorail bar-hopping". The rules are we try to hit as many different bars using only the free Disney transportation (no buses though). You'd be surprised at how many resorts and venues you can hit just using the monorail and the various boats. Then we hit the California Grille lounge for rooftop fireworks from the Magic Kingdom. No Park admission required.

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Last summer after my daughter graduated from college we went to Disneyland and California Adventure. She had never been there and wanted to go, we did go to Disney World several times when our kids were young. For me and my wife it was nostalgia but for her it was a new adventure in a new place. With that being said, I think the only time I would go back again would be to take my grandkids.

I do have a sister-in-law that absolutely loves the place. She goes down to Disney World every year and does the 1/2 marathons in the park. She is a big Disney fan either way from the characters to the movies. I think it is in part because she teaches mentally challenged kids so they love the stuff.

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I live about six miles from Disney and have an annual pass. I also live about six miles from Universal and also have an annual pass. I go to both parks all the time. Sometimes I'll just go on a couple rides on an off day. Sometimes I'll go see a move (free valet parking at Universal right next to their theater). Sometimes I'll go for lunch or dinner (Disney Springs has really good restaurants). Sometimes I'll take a date to either park (apparently not a successful strategy, lol).

I grew up eight miles from Disneyland.

I had an Aunt that designed and produced hats for Disney for 25 years.

There are characters that are named after her and my mom. My grandfather loved to tell the story about the time she was adjusting the costumes on Pirates of the Caribbean and she fell in the water.

We like the rides.

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That is one thing I will give credit to Disney for. They got their act together and make it entertaining for all ages. Everything around you is so detailed from waiting in line, to busing people to/from parks, to fine dining and everything. They don't half-ass anything.

Even if you watch their movies, there are jokes that kids won't get but adults will.

I think Disney is the most overrated amusement park ever...first of all there are just a handful of rides at each park. I took my family years ago and it was the MOST expensive vacations we ever took; we could have gone to Europe for a week. I don't get it.

I'm a Disney girl.
My husband and I go for races, but we also go to the festivals, like the Food and Wine Festival and the Flower and Garden Festival at Epcot.
We love the theming in the parks-- sure, there are not as many 'thrill rides' as in Six Flags or similar, but it's also cleaner and more detailed in theming than Six Flags. It's nice just to wander and take it in-- for us, it's not about how many rides we can do in one day.
The entertainment is generally very good.
There are quite a few restaurants that are quite good, but we also have our favorite go-to spots, including the 'traditional' (for us) margarita in Epcot's Mexico after the marathon. I don't get why people bash on the food prices-- just go to any college or pro sporting event and you're paying more for worse food and drinks. I mean, it's not cheap, but it's not as bad as our local football stadium.
The Cast Members (staff) are for the most part courteous and focused on customer service.
We've been on a couple of Disney Cruise Line cruises as well (without bringing kids)-- they have areas on the ship that are adult only (a pool, the spa, the gym, and an upscale restaurant) and we cruise when most kids are in school, so it's not quite as full of little ones as I'm sure the summer and holiday break cruises are. The entertainment on the ships is fabulous, and it's not a booze cruise or full of gambling and smokers.
So, yeah-- it works for us. It's a nice break from the 'real world.'

Matter of fact The Wife just happens to be on her way back from a work trip to Orlando as I type... Got a flurry of random texts this morning as she was killing time waiting at the airport; one of the observations she marveled at was the number of people still walking around wearing their souvenir mouse ears (obviously not at the park or any associated resort properties anymore).

The best (worst?) was some estimated ~300lb mom w/ bedazzling on the MM ears to match the embroidered baubles on her shirt. Her poor kids are sadly and surely doomed at life...

My family calls it "The Disney Gene". Some have it. Some don't.

My branch of the family has it. (180+ days in the park. 3 Disney cruises, opening night for all the movies, etc.), but I understand those who don't. It's busy, commercialized and costly.

However, for us it's all about tradition and memories and it gives our family a "common language". No matter how rough a day you might have, we can defuse any tension and engage our kids with "What's the best thing we did last trip?" or "What do you want to do first on our next trip?".

That being said, my wife and I joke with the kids and tell them "We can't wait for you guys to get older and mom and I can go by ourselves. You slow us down!"

Brad

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I can understand if you live near it. But going on one vacation every year and it’s always Disney. We’re talking flying from Toronto to Florida every year. For Disney. And never going anywhere else.

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How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?

It’s an amusement park, my wife and I are roller coaster junkies and don’t get the Disney brand of rides.

Interesting to note that they have a strict policy that adults can’t dress as characters whilst visiting the park.

I have a friend who's my age (34) and he and his two brothers (36 and 38) go every year, and have since childhood. The two older bros have families they leave at home, every year, for this brothers trip.

I absolutely do not understand the appeal. Of all the places to see and things to do in the world...

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Long Chile was a silly place.

I’d rather go fishing.

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How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?

I'd rather even stay home. Disney has absolutely zero appeal for me. Went once when I was 10. That was plenty.

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Long Chile was a silly place.

Welp. I live just down the 401 from you... but we don't fly down there every year. We usually drive. ;)

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Now 62 with youngest child nearing 30. Went there for our honeymoon in 1977. While the children were pre-teen and teen I had a severe addiction, 6+ trips??. Loved the rides with the kids. Many a family get together story around one of the "death marches" or of the rides. Just went back with wife this January. First time since 2000. Just 4 adults. We had a blast, doing many of the rides. Not considering the costs it was easily a day (or more) with little thoughts of the real world. Wouldn't call it genetic, thought it is a possible explanation. Just part of family fun history which is repeatable.

Going w/ a family including young kids, fine. Maybe even an older couple reliving some younger fairy-tale sort of ideal... But 3 middle-aged dudes together by themselves ~ WTF?!? It's gotta be some sort of front like 'fishing' in Brokeback Mtn, or an extended hookers & cocaine bender. Really...

No man, they just really love Disney, they're all huge movie buffs, starwars nerds, etc. The two brothers are normal, outgoing dudes, the youngest one, the friend of mine, is a bit odd in that he has never had a relationship or, as far as I know, even a date or kissed anyone (can't imagine why, when you're spending your vacations at Disney with your older brothers). He doesn't drink either so I doubt he's going on some bender.

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Long Chile was a silly place.

EPCOT

Once you get into the park, the attractions are mixed between kid oriented and adult oriented. All of the parks have an educational side, which I found interesting. Rides that take people through hydroponic gardens, how cars are tested for safety, etc. are really more for adults than they are for kids.

Once you get into the Showcase of Nations it becomes even more adult oriented. British pub food, shopping in a Japanese market, a replica of a Norwegian church built by Viking ship builders and lots of travel oriented attractions pretty much bore the kids and even some of the teens.

Epcot/World Showcase is my favorite part (also Animal Kingdom); we've been a few times for the Marathon and would usually spend that afternoon at Epcot just to walk around, have a few drinks /food in the different countries etc. and then head home the next day. Last time we went was three years ago when our daughter was 6, so we stayed at the park an additional day to take her. Only non-Marathon trip we did was when we first got married since neither of us had ever been.

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I can't help you. I don't want to go to Disney with my kids, let alone without them.

Go during the food and wine festival if you really want to try some great food I think they have 100 plus sampling tents won’t food from all over the world. We went this year, early sept is way the hell to hot and our daughter got hand foot mouth which was a treat but if you go later in sept or oct you’ll get the same food without the weather.

As far as adults going, trying to explain it if it’s not your thing is going to be impossible. I don’t get why people would want to go on a hunting trip but if that’s what they like awesome. The difference between Disney and other theme parks is the immersion factor. They just do a much better job of making you feel like you’ve escaped from reality. For instance, Pandora at night is just incredible from an immersion perspective.

If you don’t like Disney’s movies, theme parks etc yeah it’ll be boring and you’ll be asking why you spent so much to go. But if you take it for what it is they do a really good job with it.

Also they have some amazing restaurants all over Disney that are worth trying.

The bass fishing in the lakes at Walt Disney World is pretty good, actually. My brother-in-law has done it twice, and said it was some of the best fishing he's ever done.

It may be. But if I go here... the bass and pike fishing is also amazing and I share the lake with one or two other campsites.

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How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?

Looks awesome!!!