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"Girl Scouts National Board President Kathy Hopinkah Hannan called the Boy Scouts' plan unsettling and said it would only serve to undercut the Girl Scouts. She added that a co-ed model goes against "research supporting single gender programming.""


There is a glass ceiling in this country that I think needs to remain in place, and that is Boy Scouts allowing girls to join. Before you jump all over me, Venture Crews and Sea Scouts (both part of the Boy Scouts organization) do allow girls. But, I don't get BSA's push to make everything "equal". Boy Scouts already have a high attrition rate that we leaders have to battle every day, and it comes down to two words - Gas & Girls.
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She added that a co-ed model goes against "research supporting single gender programming.""

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa... Single gender programming? What about people who haven't decided their gender yet? Why is GSA so transphobic?

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So are they going to change the name of "Boy Scouts of America?"
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"Girl Scouts National Board President Kathy Hopinkah Hannan called the Boy Scouts' plan unsettling and said it would only serve to undercut the Girl Scouts. She added that a co-ed model goes against "research supporting single gender programming.""


There is a glass ceiling in this country that I think needs to remain in place, and that is Boy Scouts allowing girls to join. Before you jump all over me, Venture Crews and Sea Scouts (both part of the Boy Scouts organization) do allow girls. But, I don't get BSA's push to make everything "equal". Boy Scouts already have a high attrition rate that we leaders have to battle every day, and it comes down to two words - Gas & Girls.


Gas??? What a minute? I didn't know the BSA had issues with the flatulently-challenged. Might as well pull my little guy out of Tiger scouts now, before they find out at the jamboree this weekend. I don't want to put him through that humiliation.

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [EndlessH2O] [ In reply to ]
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How do you battle the attrition rate ?

We didn't go back to cub scouts this year for a couple of reasons. Since memebership is low I was surprised they never contacted us asking if we were coming back or not and why.

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EndlessH2O wrote:
She added that a co-ed model goes against "research supporting single gender programming.""


Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa... Single gender programming? What about people who haven't decided their gender yet? Why is GSA so transphobic?

YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME SICK!

"Girl Scouts welcomes transgender girls"

http://www.cnn.com/...irls-feat/index.html
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Boy Scouts already have a high attrition rate that we leaders have to battle every day, and it comes down to two words - Gas & Girls.


Funny - I've not herd that in a long time, but it sure rang true when I was in Scouts. It seems the gas is less of an issue than it use to be as this generation has less desire to drive than we did.

In our area, the really big issue is sports. A lot of the coaches are a lot less "understanding" than they use to be. Its 100% their sport or nothing.

I don't see this changing much. Just because you can join - doesn't mean you want to join. The article I read also mentioned "one stop drop off" for the parents. Those are the kids that will not last long.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [EndlessH2O] [ In reply to ]
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Boy Scouts already have a high attrition rate that we leaders have to battle every day

I would guess a large part of the motivation for this is to increase the numbers.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [EndlessH2O] [ In reply to ]
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When I was in the Boy Scouts, a long time ago, it was a quasi-military prep organization, complete with hazing, knife- and gun-play, homophobia and racism, on top of the requisite survival skills

Kinda like a Red, White & Blue Hitler Youth

All I wanted to do was go camping & canoeing and get drunk & high in the woods

I can't see why any girl would wanna sign up for that

****

My daughter was in Girls Scouts for a couple years when she was younger. She really liked the friendship and community support aspects of the organization. Sadly, her troop leader had to give up her position due to time constraints and D'Kid didn't get the same vibe with the new leader so she left Girl Scouts as well

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Sanuk] [ In reply to ]
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So are they going to change the name of "Boy Scouts of America?"

One of the hot new areas in Physical Therapy the last decade or so has been "Women's Health" which now also encompasses treatment of males. I guess at some point they'll get around to changing the name.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [RandMart] [ In reply to ]
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When I was in the Boy Scouts, a long time ago, it was a quasi-military prep organization, complete with hazing, knife- and gun-play, homophobia and racism, on top of the requisite survival skills

Kinda like a Red, White & Blue Hitler Youth

All I wanted to do was go camping & canoeing and get drunk & high in the woods

I can't see why any girl would wanna sign up for that

****

My daughter was in Girls Scouts for a couple years when she was younger. She really liked the friendship and community support aspects of the organization. Sadly, her troop leader had to give up her position due to time constraints and D'Kid didn't get the same vibe with the new leader so she left Girl Scouts as well

You are so full of shit your eyes are brown. I don't know what Troop you were in but I have been involved in Scouts just about my entire life and have never ever seen what you are describing. And if you wanted to get drunk and high in the woods, you joined the wrong organization. No wonder why you have such a low opinion of the program.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [EndlessH2O] [ In reply to ]
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Around here it seems like more kids are going towards 4H rather than boy scouts/girl scouts. The 4H programs see seem to be more diverse. My co-workers daughter got into photography with 4H, her son is into raising an alpaca.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [orphious] [ In reply to ]
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RandMart wrote:
When I was in the Boy Scouts, a long time ago, it was a quasi-military prep organization, complete with hazing, knife- and gun-play, homophobia and racism, on top of the requisite survival skills

Kinda like a Red, White & Blue Hitler Youth

All I wanted to do was go camping & canoeing and get drunk & high in the woods

I can't see why any girl would wanna sign up for that

****

My daughter was in Girls Scouts for a couple years when she was younger. She really liked the friendship and community support aspects of the organization. Sadly, her troop leader had to give up her position due to time constraints and D'Kid didn't get the same vibe with the new leader so she left Girl Scouts as well


You are so full of shit your eyes are brown. I don't know what Troop you were in but I have been involved in Scouts just about my entire life and have never ever seen what you are describing. And if you wanted to get drunk and high in the woods, you joined the wrong organization. No wonder why you have such a low opinion of the program.

This. Either RandMart had a really shitty troop, or he's making shit up.

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [RandMart] [ In reply to ]
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When I was in the Boy Scouts, a long time ago, it was a quasi-military prep organization, complete with hazing, knife- and gun-play, homophobia and racism, on top of the requisite survival skills

Kinda like a Red, White & Blue Hitler Youth

When I was in the Boy Scouts a long time ago we were taught about respect, leadership and outdoorsmanship. There were kids of all colors, shape and sizes and we met kids from all over the US and Canada. There was zero hazing.

The fact you described it like a Hitler youth program is either an exaggeration or another reason to hate NJ.

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [ThisIsIt] [ In reply to ]
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I guess at some point they'll get around to changing the name.


I asked because in Canada, we changed the name of Boy Scouts of Canada to Scouts Canada.


You can't be too politically correct.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [EndlessH2O] [ In reply to ]
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My oldest brother has been a scoutmaster for 30+ years. He has really been less than optimistic over the last few years. Numbers are down and if you can't hold a critical mass of boys things fold up. I haven't talked to him about this, wonder what he is thinking.

I'm beginning to think that we are much more fucked than I thought.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
orphious wrote:
RandMart wrote:
When I was in the Boy Scouts, a long time ago, it was a quasi-military prep organization, complete with hazing, knife- and gun-play, homophobia and racism, on top of the requisite survival skills

Kinda like a Red, White & Blue Hitler Youth

All I wanted to do was go camping & canoeing and get drunk & high in the woods

I can't see why any girl would wanna sign up for that

****

My daughter was in Girls Scouts for a couple years when she was younger. She really liked the friendship and community support aspects of the organization. Sadly, her troop leader had to give up her position due to time constraints and D'Kid didn't get the same vibe with the new leader so she left Girl Scouts as well


You are so full of shit your eyes are brown. I don't know what Troop you were in but I have been involved in Scouts just about my entire life and have never ever seen what you are describing. And if you wanted to get drunk and high in the woods, you joined the wrong organization. No wonder why you have such a low opinion of the program.


This. Either RandMart had a really shitty troop, or he's making shit up.

Oh, totally the former

I don't have a poor opinion of the Organization, just that my personal experience sucked. Also, I didn't join the Scouts to party at all [I was in Cub Scouts and Webelos in CT before joining Boy Scouts when we moved to Jersey], but after a time, that's all we did

Some dads I know from church are troop leaders, and a couple of their boys have become Eagle Scouts, and they are all awesome

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i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.

Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Sanuk] [ In reply to ]
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So are they going to change the name of "Boy Scouts of America?"

How about Boy-ish Scouts of America?
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Little Joe] [ In reply to ]
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Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.

So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [ThisIsIt] [ In reply to ]
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ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?

Seems like 3 really unlucky people. I moved around a bit as a kid, so I was in three different BSA troops, not counting Cub Scouts. I didn't run into anything like what was described. It was definitely a conservative organization in terms of teaching fundamental core values, but I didn't see any hazing above and beyond normal young kid teasing, there were no guns at all that I can remember, there was definitely no "knife play" since they were very strict about teaching safe use of knives, and I don't remember any racism or homophobia. Of course, when you have 20 or so boys in a range of ages, you'll get teasing, off color jokes, etc, but certainly nothing serious and nothing institutionalized.

I went mostly also because I liked to camp, fish, etc, and stopped at Life because I wasn't interested in enough Merit Badge topics to earn the additional 10 or so required for Eagle. I never ran into or heard of anything like Hitler Youth, including several summers at camps with multiple troops, jamborees, etc.

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [rick_pcfl] [ In reply to ]
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How about Boy-ish Scouts of America?

I would go with Gender Neutral Scouts of America.

Sure it's a mouthful but no one would be offended, which is the most important thing...

#GNSA

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?


Seems like 3 really unlucky people. I moved around a bit as a kid, so I was in three different BSA troops, not counting Cub Scouts. I didn't run into anything like what was described. It was definitely a conservative organization in terms of teaching fundamental core values, but I didn't see any hazing above and beyond normal young kid teasing, there were no guns at all that I can remember, there was definitely no "knife play" since they were very strict about teaching safe use of knives, and I don't remember any racism or homophobia. Of course, when you have 20 or so boys in a range of ages, you'll get teasing, off color jokes, etc, but certainly nothing serious and nothing institutionalized.

I went mostly also because I liked to camp, fish, etc, and stopped at Life because I wasn't interested in enough Merit Badge topics to earn the additional 10 or so required for Eagle. I never ran into or heard of anything like Hitler Youth, including several summers at camps with multiple troops, jamborees, etc.

Only couple of kids I ever knew into it seemed like great kids, probably on a path to enter the military at some point. My only personal experience was going to a informational meeting in our town with my son. I little too much God and country for my taste but that was neither here nor there, what turned me off was the scout master. He looked like he had just come off a road crew and pounded a few down before coming to the meeting. Didn't seem like the sort you'd want to send your kid off for the weekend in the woods with, so we bailed.
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Sanuk wrote:
How about Boy-ish Scouts of America?

I would go with Gender Neutral Scouts of America.

Sure it's a mouthful but no one would be offended, which is the most important thing...

#GNSA

Person Scouts of America.

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [mck414] [ In reply to ]
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Person Scouts of America.

The problem is that would be shortened to PSA.

Why do you hate people who have to get their Prostate tested?

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Sanuk] [ In reply to ]
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Sanuk wrote:
Person Scouts of America.

The problem is that would be shortened to PSA.

Why do you hate people who have to get their Prostate tested?

How about Junior Scouts of America??????

JSA, what say you?

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?


Seems like 3 really unlucky people. I moved around a bit as a kid, so I was in three different BSA troops, not counting Cub Scouts. I didn't run into anything like what was described. It was definitely a conservative organization in terms of teaching fundamental core values, but I didn't see any hazing above and beyond normal young kid teasing, there were no guns at all that I can remember, there was definitely no "knife play" since they were very strict about teaching safe use of knives, and I don't remember any racism or homophobia. Of course, when you have 20 or so boys in a range of ages, you'll get teasing, off color jokes, etc, but certainly nothing serious and nothing institutionalized.

I went mostly also because I liked to camp, fish, etc, and stopped at Life because I wasn't interested in enough Merit Badge topics to earn the additional 10 or so required for Eagle. I never ran into or heard of anything like Hitler Youth, including several summers at camps with multiple troops, jamborees, etc.

I think RandMart's description is more extreme than what I experienced but I noticed similar themes during my time in Scouts. It definitely felt like military prep to me, from the uniforms to the language of being sorted into "platoons" and "ranks" to learning to stand at attention and salute and fall out, and so on. Knife and gun safety was emphasized by the leaders but seemed it was honored more in the breach. Racism and homophobia were big no-nos in my troop, but in some of the others in my region it was definitely a strong undercurrent if not openly practiced; but that came from the individual leaders of particular troops, not something that seemed like it was institutionalized within the broader Scouts organization.

I liked Scouting and got a lot out of it but I think there was/is a lot of variation. IMO the default to a military-lite style of organization and the significant level of autonomy from troop to troop can enable bad actors both within the members of the troop and its leaders.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [wimsey] [ In reply to ]
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wimsey wrote:
slowguy wrote:
ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?


Seems like 3 really unlucky people. I moved around a bit as a kid, so I was in three different BSA troops, not counting Cub Scouts. I didn't run into anything like what was described. It was definitely a conservative organization in terms of teaching fundamental core values, but I didn't see any hazing above and beyond normal young kid teasing, there were no guns at all that I can remember, there was definitely no "knife play" since they were very strict about teaching safe use of knives, and I don't remember any racism or homophobia. Of course, when you have 20 or so boys in a range of ages, you'll get teasing, off color jokes, etc, but certainly nothing serious and nothing institutionalized.

I went mostly also because I liked to camp, fish, etc, and stopped at Life because I wasn't interested in enough Merit Badge topics to earn the additional 10 or so required for Eagle. I never ran into or heard of anything like Hitler Youth, including several summers at camps with multiple troops, jamborees, etc.


I think RandMart's description is more extreme than what I experienced but I noticed similar themes during my time in Scouts. It definitely felt like military prep to me, from the uniforms to the language of being sorted into "platoons" and "ranks" to learning to stand at attention and salute and fall out, and so on. Knife and gun safety was emphasized by the leaders but seemed it was honored more in the breach. Racism and homophobia were big no-nos in my troop, but in some of the others in my region it was definitely a strong undercurrent if not openly practiced; but that came from the individual leaders of particular troops, not something that seemed like it was institutionalized within the broader Scouts organization.

I liked Scouting and got a lot out of it but I think there was/is a lot of variation. IMO the default to a military-lite style of organization and the significant level of autonomy from troop to troop can enable bad actors both within the members of the troop and its leaders.

Our troop was supposedly a strong one. There were some very good guys, but the adult leadership was toxic. Racism was a major issue.
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Little Joe wrote:
wimsey wrote:
slowguy wrote:
ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?


Seems like 3 really unlucky people. I moved around a bit as a kid, so I was in three different BSA troops, not counting Cub Scouts. I didn't run into anything like what was described. It was definitely a conservative organization in terms of teaching fundamental core values, but I didn't see any hazing above and beyond normal young kid teasing, there were no guns at all that I can remember, there was definitely no "knife play" since they were very strict about teaching safe use of knives, and I don't remember any racism or homophobia. Of course, when you have 20 or so boys in a range of ages, you'll get teasing, off color jokes, etc, but certainly nothing serious and nothing institutionalized.

I went mostly also because I liked to camp, fish, etc, and stopped at Life because I wasn't interested in enough Merit Badge topics to earn the additional 10 or so required for Eagle. I never ran into or heard of anything like Hitler Youth, including several summers at camps with multiple troops, jamborees, etc.


I think RandMart's description is more extreme than what I experienced but I noticed similar themes during my time in Scouts. It definitely felt like military prep to me, from the uniforms to the language of being sorted into "platoons" and "ranks" to learning to stand at attention and salute and fall out, and so on. Knife and gun safety was emphasized by the leaders but seemed it was honored more in the breach. Racism and homophobia were big no-nos in my troop, but in some of the others in my region it was definitely a strong undercurrent if not openly practiced; but that came from the individual leaders of particular troops, not something that seemed like it was institutionalized within the broader Scouts organization.

I liked Scouting and got a lot out of it but I think there was/is a lot of variation. IMO the default to a military-lite style of organization and the significant level of autonomy from troop to troop can enable bad actors both within the members of the troop and its leaders.


Our troop was supposedly a strong one. There were some very good guys, but the adult leadership was toxic. Racism was a major issue.
Can I ask: what age range did you get your experience with BSA?
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Brownie28] [ In reply to ]
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Brownie28 wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wimsey wrote:
slowguy wrote:
ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?


Seems like 3 really unlucky people. I moved around a bit as a kid, so I was in three different BSA troops, not counting Cub Scouts. I didn't run into anything like what was described. It was definitely a conservative organization in terms of teaching fundamental core values, but I didn't see any hazing above and beyond normal young kid teasing, there were no guns at all that I can remember, there was definitely no "knife play" since they were very strict about teaching safe use of knives, and I don't remember any racism or homophobia. Of course, when you have 20 or so boys in a range of ages, you'll get teasing, off color jokes, etc, but certainly nothing serious and nothing institutionalized.

I went mostly also because I liked to camp, fish, etc, and stopped at Life because I wasn't interested in enough Merit Badge topics to earn the additional 10 or so required for Eagle. I never ran into or heard of anything like Hitler Youth, including several summers at camps with multiple troops, jamborees, etc.


I think RandMart's description is more extreme than what I experienced but I noticed similar themes during my time in Scouts. It definitely felt like military prep to me, from the uniforms to the language of being sorted into "platoons" and "ranks" to learning to stand at attention and salute and fall out, and so on. Knife and gun safety was emphasized by the leaders but seemed it was honored more in the breach. Racism and homophobia were big no-nos in my troop, but in some of the others in my region it was definitely a strong undercurrent if not openly practiced; but that came from the individual leaders of particular troops, not something that seemed like it was institutionalized within the broader Scouts organization.

I liked Scouting and got a lot out of it but I think there was/is a lot of variation. IMO the default to a military-lite style of organization and the significant level of autonomy from troop to troop can enable bad actors both within the members of the troop and its leaders.


Our troop was supposedly a strong one. There were some very good guys, but the adult leadership was toxic. Racism was a major issue.

Can I ask: what age range did you get your experience with BSA?

Cub Scouts up to about 16 or 17, I think. It took me a while to persuade my parents they should let me drop it before making Eagle.
I want to be clear that I'm not trying to make any general statements about the organization as a whole. I learned a lot of good stuff, spent time with friends, and had fun, but overall it was not the kind of experience I would want my kids to go through.
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My oldest brother has been a scoutmaster for 30+ years. He has really been less than optimistic over the last few years. Numbers are down and if you can't hold a critical mass of boys things fold up. I haven't talked to him about this, wonder what he is thinking.

BSA does have numbers issues - competition from other organizations and influences is driving this. To allow/not to allow homosexuals may have had an effect.

We are fortunate to have a strong membership within the Occoneechee Council (central NC). The LDS units are strong too, but there is a rumor that the church may be moving away from supporting BSA.
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Around here it seems like more kids are going towards 4H rather than boy scouts/girl scouts. The 4H programs see seem to be more diverse. My co-workers daughter got into photography with 4H, her son is into raising an alpaca.

I was looking into girlscouts and 4h for my daughter. The girlscouts keep calling me desperate for me to sign up and the 4h leader told me that I needed to sign up the day registration opened if I want a slot.

I did both growing up- I think 4H has done a better job modernizing. They have cool robotics and rocket programs along with dogs and livestock.
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ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?

Former Eagle Scout here. Not even close to Hitler Youth. To give RandMart the doubt, I suspect he'd even admit his comparison was hyperbolic and unnecessarily inflammatory.

Scouts to me was a mixed bag. Sure, it was a bit homophobic at the time, but what organizations in the 70s weren't. I had some great experiences and great memories. Don't think I learned all that much, other than a love of the outdoors. As much as Scouts likes to talk about its positive influence, we were all still just a bunch of hormonal, asshole kids. Maybe a little better as a group than random classmates from school, but not much. We all hated the uniforms and quasi militaristic shit, but I suspect that's not much different than students' reactions to uniforms and discipline at a Catholic school. We were always looking for ways to rebel against that. But the camping and hiking was cool.

I think including girls may be a mixed bag. There may be some good to come out of it, but at that age, I also think there's merit to segregation by sex.
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We had plenty of "knife play." I don't see anything wrong with that. Sure, we were taught how to properly handle a knife, even had to have some card before you could have a knife on a campout (Totin' Chip?). But the minute the leaders looked the other way, we were taking target practice on the nearest tree. (And I suspect our adult leaders knew we were doing this.) In a way, though, I think that's the way it should be.

Not a lot of guns other than at the range.

Certainly, a good deal of hazing behind the leaders' backs. But mostly in good nature.

I was in scouts in the 70s, so there were gay and other non-PC jokes.
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 "So are they going to change the name of "Boy Scouts of America?""

Why? Girls can be boys, too.








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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [RandMart] [ In reply to ]
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"Oh, totally the former

I don't have a poor opinion of the Organization, just that my personal experience sucked. Also, I didn't join the Scouts to party at all [I was in Cub Scouts and Webelos in CT before joining Boy Scouts when we moved to Jersey], but after a time, that's all we did

Some dads I know from church are troop leaders, and a couple of their boys have become Eagle Scouts, and they are all awesome "


It seems like who your troop is makes all the difference. I was a cub scout, and absolutely loved everything about the idea, but my troop sucked. What I remember from it was that the kid of our troop leader was a spoiled brat who could do no wrong in his father's eyes, was the ring leader of meanness, and I was odd man out. When the troop met up with all the other troops, I was confused why they had so many patches and we didn't have any. Turns out that our troop leader wasn't even doing his job. We just got together routinely and did whatever BS he came up with.

My wife had a similar experience, but said that there was another troop that all of her friends got into that was supposedly really fun. She was a future scientist who ended up in a troop full of future cheerleaders. Just not a good fit.

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [BarryP] [ In reply to ]
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I was fortunate to end up in a very strong troop. I started in a troop that was falling apart and hazing amounted to a very simple snipe hunt.

In the troop I ended up in, I don't recall any hazing. We were very active with campouts every month, whitewater rafting, backpacking, etc. We practiced so much first aid that I was able to save a coked out woman during spring break in college even though I had a number of beverages.

I'm an Eagle scout and went to a military college. In scouts we were never exposed to racism or any Hitler type behavior.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [RandMart] [ In reply to ]
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I bailed on BSA at an early age for three basic reasons 1) God and religion - even at a young age I was a free thinker and non-religious 2) Scout leader was a creepy guy that spent way too much alone time with individual scouts 3) the troop was way to white so many of my friends of various colors avoided it.

I joined YMCA Y-Guides with my kids as an adult and it has been a great program. All the goodness of BSA without the god stuff, homophobia, and pedophiles ( and the Dads get to enjoy adult beverages on campouts).
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [EndlessH2O] [ In reply to ]
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Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

- Chinese proverb
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [orphious] [ In reply to ]
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orphious wrote:
RandMart wrote:
When I was in the Boy Scouts, a long time ago, it was a quasi-military prep organization, complete with hazing, knife- and gun-play, homophobia and racism, on top of the requisite survival skills

Kinda like a Red, White & Blue Hitler Youth

All I wanted to do was go camping & canoeing and get drunk & high in the woods

"quasi military" - wear uniforms, a 'troop' organized into 'patrols', salute the flag, do an opening colors ceremony, report all present and accounted for, police the camp (i.e. cleanup), have duty rosters. This was my experience in scouts. As far as what it was prep for I don't know, but a number of guys from my troop enlisted in the military (most of people I knew of from my town that joined military were from my scout troop).

hazing? - I won't get into details, but there were certainly "ordeals" that some might call hazing; it did not involve sex, alcohol or physical abuse, but the definition of hazing by some is anything that is difficult or could make you uncomfortable. Is making 13 year boys sleep out dispersed in the woods for one night, without a fire or flashlight hazing? Is making someone sleep overnight in a survival shelter hazing? Is making someone do extra chores or 10 push ups as a punishment, hazing? Is telling 12-14 year old kids stories about the camp bogeyman (in our case "Charlie the Bogman") at night out in the wood, hazing? I think once a a couple of older scouts pushed me around a little bit because I kept doing pranks on them.
This was my experience in scouts. Textbook, I guess I was 'hazed', I would call it learning to be responsible and/or not be a pussy.

knife play - yes we had pocketknives and probably were fooling around with them when the leaders were not watching our every move. Yes we were instructed on safe use and handling of knives/axes (Totin chip certification) and yes, the leaders would take these things away from you if you did not follow the rules.

gun play - yes, we had cap guns and sometimes would run around in the woods and have fake battles on campouts. This was the 1980s, remember 'Red Dawn'? This wasn't as weird as it sounds. We did not have real guns, except at the rifle range at summer camp where we used bolt action .22s under heavy supervision. Same deal for archery.

homophobia - at least in the 1980s, if you had any group of adolescent teenage boys there was rampant homophobia. When I was a kid (1980s), calling people a faggot was a common insult (we also used to call people retard). I did not know of a single openly gay person until I went to college. Again, very different world today. My point is this was not confined to the Scouts, more of a generational thing.

There was no drinking or drugs tolerated.

So depending on how you won't to slant it, I don't think RandyMar was too far off.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Little Joe] [ In reply to ]
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Same experience as RandMart. I had huge amount of outdoor experience from summer camp experience and looked forward to scouts. However, my particular troop was "Lord of the Flies". As an adult, I've been able to see troops that seem to be much better run.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [tri_yoda] [ In reply to ]
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tri_yoda wrote:
orphious wrote:
RandMart wrote:
When I was in the Boy Scouts, a long time ago, it was a quasi-military prep organization, complete with hazing, knife- and gun-play, homophobia and racism, on top of the requisite survival skills

Kinda like a Red, White & Blue Hitler Youth

All I wanted to do was go camping & canoeing and get drunk & high in the woods


"quasi military" - wear uniforms, a 'troop' organized into 'patrols', salute the flag, do an opening colors ceremony, report all present and accounted for, police the camp (i.e. cleanup), have duty rosters. This was my experience in scouts. As far as what it was prep for I don't know, but a number of guys from my troop enlisted in the military (most of people I knew of from my town that joined military were from my scout troop).

hazing? - I won't get into details, but there were certainly "ordeals" that some might call hazing; it did not involve sex, alcohol or physical abuse, but the definition of hazing by some is anything that is difficult or could make you uncomfortable. Is making 13 year boys sleep out dispersed in the woods for one night, without a fire or flashlight hazing? Is making someone sleep overnight in a survival shelter hazing? Is making someone do extra chores or 10 push ups as a punishment, hazing? Is telling 12-14 year old kids stories about the camp bogeyman (in our case "Charlie the Bogman") at night out in the wood, hazing? I think once a a couple of older scouts pushed me around a little bit because I kept doing pranks on them.
This was my experience in scouts. Textbook, I guess I was 'hazed', I would call it learning to be responsible and/or not be a pussy.

knife play - yes we had pocketknives and probably were fooling around with them when the leaders were not watching our every move. Yes we were instructed on safe use and handling of knives/axes (Totin chip certification) and yes, the leaders would take these things away from you if you did not follow the rules.

gun play - yes, we had cap guns and sometimes would run around in the woods and have fake battles on campouts. This was the 1980s, remember 'Red Dawn'? This wasn't as weird as it sounds. We did not have real guns, except at the rifle range at summer camp where we used bolt action .22s under heavy supervision. Same deal for archery.

homophobia - at least in the 1980s, if you had any group of adolescent teenage boys there was rampant homophobia. When I was a kid (1980s), calling people a faggot was a common insult (we also used to call people retard). I did not know of a single openly gay person until I went to college. Again, very different world today. My point is this was not confined to the Scouts, more of a generational thing.

There was no drinking or drugs tolerated.

So depending on how you won't to slant it, I don't think RandyMar was too far off.


A couple of things. If you want to call wearing uniforms and learning to respect the flag etc..military prep.. possibly. Good citizenship, respect not only for flag and country but also respect for yourself and others is one of the basic tenants of Scouting. Hardly the Hitler youth association RandMar described it as.

As far as your examples of hazing, no one is forced to do any of those things. Sleeping in the woods in your built shelter is part of a merit badge. If you don't want to do it, you simply choose to do that merit badge. I am assuming by your "ordeal" that it was part of the Order of the Arrow. I don't know much about the Ordeal as my son hasn't been inducted yet. However I think they do go into the woods and sleep with out fire and flashlights. I think they aren't allowed to talk either. Again not hazing. You don't have to do it and no one ridicules you to if don't it. Of course if you don't, you don't get in to the Order. The kids want to be in the Order so they do it. Bottom line in my experience and I have been involved in Scouting now for 10 years as an adult and then all the years I was in when I was a kid is no one is forced to do anything they don't want to do. Could there be peer pressure by other Scouts? Sure. But no more than any other organization. Of course there are the extreme examples (just like other organizations) but for the most part.. hazing just doesn't happen and is not tolerated.

Back to the topic of girls joining.

I am all for it. For the most part, parents I have talked to that have girls in Girl Scouts, say their daughters would much rather do BOy Scouts ad the the Girls Scouts really dont do all that much and their daughters dont get much out of the program.

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"The mission of the Boy Scouts of America is to prepare young people to make ethical and moral choices over their lifetimes by instilling in them the values of the Scout Oath and Law. "


Why not teach these values to both boys and girls??

Anyway.. I thought this was funny:


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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [tri_yoda] [ In reply to ]
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Order of the arrow ?

"I think I've cracked the code. double letters are cheaters except for perfect squares (a, d, i, p and y). So Leddy isn't a cheater... "
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Leddy] [ In reply to ]
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Leddy wrote:
Order of the arrow ?

It's like the Scouts version of an honor society. Some Scouts are selected by their Troop to be inducted, based on the kids who best exemplify the Scouting ideals. They usually go through a few days of induction stuff during Summer camp (no talking, working on special projects, sleeping in an area separate from the rest of their troop, etc).

OA members are allowed to participate in some special OA events, adventure programs, leadership training, etc.

Slowguy

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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I was asking if he was in it. Some of his post sounds like the induction ceremony I went through.

"I think I've cracked the code. double letters are cheaters except for perfect squares (a, d, i, p and y). So Leddy isn't a cheater... "
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [orphious] [ In reply to ]
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It was 30 years ago so I don't exactly remember it all and dam I'm getting old. The way the ceremony I went through you slept out in the woods without anything except your sleeping bag the first night. You're not allowed to talk for 24 hours , it could've been longer I don't really remember. There's also service projects you do. I could see how someone could consider it hazing. But it wasn't like any of the hazing I went through for sports , fraternity and such.

I was inducted in Unami lodge at treasure island where OA was started. The entire thing from start on the river bank to finish in the amphitheater was pretty cool for kid.

"I think I've cracked the code. double letters are cheaters except for perfect squares (a, d, i, p and y). So Leddy isn't a cheater... "
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Leddy] [ In reply to ]
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Leddy wrote:
I was asking if he was in it. Some of his post sounds like the induction ceremony I went through.

Ah, got it. I was OA back a long time ago, but my lodge doesn't exist anymore. Apparently there was some reorganization and it was combined with another.



Slowguy

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [oldandslow] [ In reply to ]
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oldandslow wrote:
Same experience as RandMart. I had huge amount of outdoor experience from summer camp experience and looked forward to scouts. However, my particular troop was "Lord of the Flies". As an adult, I've been able to see troops that seem to be much better run.


I tried it for a few months and thought it was just stupid. What they called "camping" to me was not camping. Almost car camping. Instead I found other organizations that did real outdoor activities, like mountaineering, rock-climbing. Not just pitching a tent 200 meters from a freeway.

This could have been entirely problems with my local BSA organization. But it was my experience.

Also wouldn't call it "Nazi youth," but I thought the faux-military aspects were kind of silly.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [EndlessH2O] [ In reply to ]
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Enrollment in BSA has been down for years. Someone over there got the great idea to compromise on their morals in hopes of boosting membership but it has surprisingly had the opposite effect. Who could have guessed a bunch of conservative parents would not want their children camping with openly gay boys and leaders?
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Perseus] [ In reply to ]
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Perseus wrote:
Who could have guessed a bunch of conservative parents would not want their children camping with openly gay boys and leaders?

Bye, Felicia! Sounds like a win-win to me.
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
ThisIsIt wrote:
Little Joe wrote:
wdrhoads wrote:
i agree with randmart. former eagle scout.


Similar experience here. Former Life Scout.


So we know have 3 people who participated in scouts equating them to the Hitler Youth?

Seems like 3 really unlucky people. I moved around a bit as a kid, so I was in three different BSA troops, not counting Cub Scouts. I didn't run into anything like what was described. It was definitely a conservative organization in terms of teaching fundamental core values, but I didn't see any hazing above and beyond normal young kid teasing, there were no guns at all that I can remember, there was definitely no "knife play" since they were very strict about teaching safe use of knives, and I don't remember any racism or homophobia. Of course, when you have 20 or so boys in a range of ages, you'll get teasing, off color jokes, etc, but certainly nothing serious and nothing institutionalized.

I went mostly also because I liked to camp, fish, etc, and stopped at Life because I wasn't interested in enough Merit Badge topics to earn the additional 10 or so required for Eagle. I never ran into or heard of anything like Hitler Youth, including several summers at camps with multiple troops, jamborees, etc.

I was in the Scouts as well (Eagle). We did a lot of backpacking. It was in the Boy Scouts where I developed my deep appreciation of nature.

We all carried knives but there wasn’t anything I’d consider to be “knife play”.

As for racism, nope. About half the troop was Hispanic kids and we even had a kid with Down syndrome who, to this day, is one of my good friends.

Homophobia? A bunch of 12-14ish year old boys together in the woods? No way.... :)

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

- Chinese proverb
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
Leddy wrote:
I was asking if he was in it. Some of his post sounds like the induction ceremony I went through.


Ah, got it. I was OA back a long time ago, but my lodge doesn't exist anymore. Apparently there was some reorganization and it was combined with another.



Come on, man. You know we aren’t suppose to talk about OA!

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

- Chinese proverb
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [RandMart] [ In reply to ]
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Were you in a Mormon troop?

Those guys were craaaaaaazzzzzzzyyyyyyyy!

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

- Chinese proverb
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Duffy wrote:
slowguy wrote:
Leddy wrote:
I was asking if he was in it. Some of his post sounds like the induction ceremony I went through.


Ah, got it. I was OA back a long time ago, but my lodge doesn't exist anymore. Apparently there was some reorganization and it was combined with another.



Come on, man. You know we aren’t suppose to talk about OA!

All of that can be found right on the official OA website.

Slowguy

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
Duffy wrote:
slowguy wrote:
Leddy wrote:
I was asking if he was in it. Some of his post sounds like the induction ceremony I went through.


Ah, got it. I was OA back a long time ago, but my lodge doesn't exist anymore. Apparently there was some reorganization and it was combined with another.



Come on, man. You know we aren’t suppose to talk about OA!

All of that can be found right on the official OA website.

Shhhhh!

Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

- Chinese proverb
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [Duffy] [ In reply to ]
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Duffy wrote:
slowguy wrote:
Duffy wrote:
slowguy wrote:
Leddy wrote:
I was asking if he was in it. Some of his post sounds like the induction ceremony I went through.


Ah, got it. I was OA back a long time ago, but my lodge doesn't exist anymore. Apparently there was some reorganization and it was combined with another.



Come on, man. You know we aren’t suppose to talk about OA!

All of that can be found right on the official OA website.

Shhhhh!

You seem very concerned about keeping Scouting stuff secret. Did your Scoutmaster have lots of things he wanted you to keep secret, just between you and him?

Slowguy

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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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Civilize the mind, but make savage the body.

- Chinese proverb
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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Don't show him the secret handshake



"I think I've cracked the code. double letters are cheaters except for perfect squares (a, d, i, p and y). So Leddy isn't a cheater... "
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Re: BSA to allow girls - GSA has a problem with this [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
Duffy wrote:
slowguy wrote:
Duffy wrote:
slowguy wrote:
Leddy wrote:
I was asking if he was in it. Some of his post sounds like the induction ceremony I went through.


Ah, got it. I was OA back a long time ago, but my lodge doesn't exist anymore. Apparently there was some reorganization and it was combined with another.



Come on, man. You know we aren’t suppose to talk about OA!


All of that can be found right on the official OA website.


Shhhhh!


You seem very concerned about keeping Scouting stuff secret. Did your Scoutmaster have lots of things he wanted you to keep secret, just between you and him?

It's called two deep leadership.
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