I'm similar. My willpower to resist sweets and chips is pretty weak, so I try to just not purchase them. The problem is that my wife purchases both, although the fortunate side to having celiacs is that almost all of the sweets she buys are things I can't eat anyway and she irregularly purchases chips. Without discipline and work, I'd be heavy again and have, fortunately, been able to avoid becoming heavy again by keeping a focus on it. When life isn't overly stressful, it's not difficult for me at all; when it is stressful it's easier to let my guard down when shopping and pick up extra stuff that's not on my list.
One thing that helps is making my entire work week's worth of lunches on Sunday afternoon, and if I don't have time to make enough for the week I go and buy two dinners at a local restaurant and split it into 4 meals for lunches or make something quick and easy like a frittata. My nightly ritual is to get my lunch, breakfast, and all snacks ready to go, down to loading the espresso machine so I'm not tempted to stop by a coffee shop and end up consuming junk I didn't plan on. I still pick up take out for dinner too often, but almost always eat only half of it.
It's not easy all the time, but I feel a heck of a lot better as I'm disciplined. Sometimes people just don't have the willpower to try to set their habits right, which is unfortunate. Knowing how difficult it can be to stick with it, I completely empathize with those who struggle and end up using food as a drug or coping tool.
nslckevin wrote:
ironclm wrote:
It would be nice to be as perfect as most of you with impeccable willpower.
Will power is nice, but for me the solution is to not bring anything into the house that I don't want to / shouldn't eat. I love chips, but if there are none in my house I can't eat them. Same with ice cream, cookies etc. If they are in my house though, I'd eat them.
I try to do just one big shopping trip a week. Usually on Saturday after my big ride AND after eating a nice lunch. That way I'm not roaming around the grocery store hungry and buying a bunch of crap I shouldn't be eating.
There are few things as dangerous as stopping off at the store on your way home from work when you are hungry.
From a weight control perspective I'm not a big fan of eating out. I always have the best of intentions. And then they bring out the bread. For my whole professional life I've always brought a lunch and eaten it at my desk. Initially for money concerns, but I actually prefer it and I save a shit ton of money and eat better by not eating out. Everything that I plan to eat at work comes to work with me that day. No vending machine or burrito truck, or mini mart stop. No choices, no will power necessary.
Basically my solution is to only be required to use my will power once a week or so as opposed to every single meal.
Granted it helps to be a little OCD and happy to eat the same thing pretty much every single day though.